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  1. ProducerTari Krabill

    Tari Krabill

    Iguestblog is Expanding Guest Posting Services
    Iguestblog is Expanding Guest Posting ServicesIguestblog is a guest blogging service providing that is based in the United States. After getting huge success at national level in the United States, digital marketing firm decided to launch its guest blogging services at international...
  2. ProducerGert Scholtz

    Gert Scholtz

    Bertrand Russell on Uncertainty
    Bertrand Russell on UncertaintyIs there virtue in uncertainty?Bertrand Russell was a British philosopher, logician, mathematician, historian, writer, social critic, political activist and Nobel laureate. He campaigned against the wars of his time, and he was an eccentric and...


    Mohammed A. Jawad
    18/11/2017 #6 Mohammed A. Jawad
    Prized precepts to polish one's perception!
    Laurent Boscherini
    18/11/2017 #5 Anonymous
    Thank you @Gert Scholtz for sharing your excellent post so relevant as usual. "Uncertainty is the only certainty there is, and knowing how to live with insecurity is the only security." - John Allen Paulos
    VDS Brink
    18/11/2017 #4 VDS Brink
    Lovely Gert!!

    This says it all: Russell replied: "No, I won't."
    Pascal Derrien
    18/11/2017 #3 Pascal Derrien
    Within any doubt a witty and well written insight in Russell mind to be honest did not know the chap but I like the way he thought 💭 I will dig in @Gert Scholtz
    Paul Walters
    18/11/2017 #2 Paul Walters
    @Gert Scholtz . Another gem...thanks Gert
  3. ProducerAndrew 🐝 Goldman
    Not again!
    Not again!Some actions do piss us off. How it happens that there are things that we like and those that we hate? Besides, different people like different activities. And that is a great issue preventing most of the people from finding their true purpose. If...


    Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
    18/11/2017 #5 Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
    Being positive takes less energy than being negative. Happiness can be contagious - spread it around!
    Bill Stankiewicz, 🐝 Brand Ambassador
    17/11/2017 #3 Bill Stankiewicz, 🐝 Brand Ambassador
    Very true, with some folks being part of the environment grown up in, but you can change, takes will, inertia & PMA
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    17/11/2017 #1 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    We do become our environment, either positive or negative. Choose to be around positive people, not emotional vampires. Great message @Andrew 🐝 Goldman
  4. ProducerDAVID VEGA


    Instagram Stories adds no-frills photo-only posting from mobile web
    Instagram Stories adds no-frills photo-only posting from mobile webSnap Chat Dead? Instagram Stories adds no-frills photo-only posting from the mobile web, as Instagram really wants the developing world to start using Storytelling with Brand Development.IG Users won’t be able to use Instagram’s augmented reality...
  5. ProducerBirnoveanu Irina
    Happy customers?
    Happy customers?What we can do with nervous customers that affect the life's work of our employees?It is important to have happy customers but some people are difficult to extract from the shell of their anger.They come unhappy or are such preoccupied of their...


    Birnoveanu Irina
    18/11/2017 #2 Birnoveanu Irina
    #1 Thank you Preston for your words!
    Preston 🐝 Vander Ven
    18/11/2017 #1 Preston 🐝 Vander Ven
    @Birnoveanu Irina Great Buzz. I have also learned not to push hard on prospects. For example, "Less is More." I would rather have more loyal customers buying products with at a lower profit, than push hard and make a sale and make a large profit, but never see that customer again. If I lose that relationship, I am now in the hardest part of my entire part of business, "Getting Leads."
    I made this mistake years ago when I sold vacuums. I sold these for about 6 months. I noticed that the customers who I pushed hard to buy the product never called me again. Yet, the ones who I helped, truly help solved a problem, and even gave them a better price up front, became a returning customer. Sure I lost a big commission on the initial sale, but I made it up as they later would call me back for for vacuum materials when needed.
  6. ProducerAtul Chaudhary

    Atul Chaudhary

    Professional PR Services For Improving Your Business
    Professional PR Services For Improving Your BusinessRunning a successful business with Quality product and service is most important. With the lack of planning, infrastructure and attention, it is quite difficult to make the day-to-day operations. One of the main aspects of the business...
  7. ProducerGino Leo

    Gino Leo

    Reasons Behind the Growing Popularity of Web Marketing Freelance Services
    Reasons Behind the Growing Popularity of Web Marketing Freelance ServicesFreelance writing jobs are terrific areas to start because you don't need to be a professional writer to land work. Professional freelancers are charging considerably significant rates to supply their abilities and services to different online...
  8. ProducerDeborah Levine

    Deborah Levine

    Going Southern - Regional Diversity
    Going Southern - Regional DiversityWe often think of diversity as race, ethnicity, gender, and religion. Sometimes we add generational diversity, but rarely do add our diverse geography. Yet, our regional differences account for much of the controversies, culture clashes, and...


    Deborah Levine
    17/11/2017 #19 Deborah Levine
    #17 Yes, @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher our history is full of immigrant stories that need to be told and retold. I didn't know about the Finnish contribution in Ohio - amazing. I wonder where the laborers went when they left Ashtabula. Wouldn't it be amazing if we could track down some of their descendants!
    Deborah Levine
    17/11/2017 #18 Deborah Levine
    Thanks for bringing up the Civil war. We need to understand our history in order to understand the present and plan for the future. Regional diversity is a very old reality, not a new concept. #16
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    17/11/2017 #17 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    I love how descriptive your video is @Deborah Levine. Enjoyed learning of your own journey from Bermuda to the South and why you chose that region. I grew up in Ashtabula, Ohio, a large port City long ago. We had many Finnish and Italian settlers who lived among each other within neighborhoods.

    "As early as 1872 one of the Finnish section gangs had been at work in Ashtabula Harbor laying track for the Ashtabula, Youngstown, and Pittsburgh Railroad.6 This labor crew was composed of twenty-five men and a female cook; among their number were Andrew Bloom and Kalle Kotka. The latter, a lad of about twenty, was killed by a train in the gravel pit of the A. Y. & P. Railroad on November 8, 1872, and thus became the first Finn to find his final resting place in Ashtabula.7 The Finnish laborers remained in the Harbor for only a short time but their presence did evoke the following comment from the Ashtabula Telegraph:" - http://www.genealogia.fi/emi/art/article222e.htm Interesting article!

    Thank you for sharing this, I will now share it with others :)
    Brook Massey
    17/11/2017 #16 Brook Massey
    #11 @Deborah Levine, in general, I do believe that the two cultures are distinct. Genetically, many Appalachian folk are of poor Scottish or Ulster-Scot descent. Historically, in the Civil War, obviously, most southern residents sided with the south. While, most Appalachian residents sided with the north: West Virginia splitting from Virginia and NE Tennessee trying to breakaway from Tennessee.
    Bill Stankiewicz, 🐝 Brand Ambassador
    16/11/2017 #15 Bill Stankiewicz, 🐝 Brand Ambassador
    #14 your very welcome Deborah!
    Deborah Levine
    16/11/2017 #14 Deborah Levine
    Thanks for sharing on Twitter @Bill Stankiewicz, 🐝 Brand Ambassador#13
    Bill Stankiewicz, 🐝 Brand Ambassador
    16/11/2017 #13 Bill Stankiewicz, 🐝 Brand Ambassador
    Love ❤️ the buzz here & love the book!!!!
    Deborah Levine
    16/11/2017 #12 Deborah Levine
    #10 Yes, @David B. Grinberg, today's overlap of demographics, history, and geography is a vital part of understanding what is happening not only in a region but in national shifts both culturally and politically. I make the combination and confluence a basic element of my diversity training. How can I not?
    Deborah Levine
    16/11/2017 #11 Deborah Levine
    Thanks for the feedback @Brook Massey#9 Appalachian culture is indeed one-of-a-kind. I write about that more in the book, Going Southern. Years ago, when I was studying Appalachia in my urban planning masters, there was a claim that Appalachians are distinct not only in their culture but are a distinct DNA group. Would you agree?
    David B. Grinberg
    16/11/2017 #10 David B. Grinberg
    Nice blogging buzz, Deborah. I also like the video. I think geographic diversity overlaps with demographic diversity, a phenomenon dating back to the Civil War. However, this has become more pronounced today with Hispanics/Latinos and Asians being the fastest growing populations in the USA. In fact, any one group could largely be concentrated in a specific region. Thus, your thesis makes perfect sense!
    Brook Massey
    16/11/2017 #9 Brook Massey
    @Deborah Levine, most of my life has been spent in the hills of Kentucky. I did live a while in Alabama, though. The Appalachian culture of much of Kentucky, is a little different from Southern. You describe our Alabama experience perfectly. Appalachia is a less genteel, a little rougher. People talk fast and move slow.
    Deborah Levine
    15/11/2017 #7 Deborah Levine
    Yup, Turkey in the Straw is one of America's oldest folks songs and probably goes back to Celtic origins in the 1700s. Most folks don't know that my first publications were about dance history. #6
    Harvey Lloyd
    15/11/2017 #6 Harvey Lloyd
    #3 Turkey in the straw, that's taking it back. Had completely forgotten about that one.
    Deborah Levine
    15/11/2017 #5 Deborah Levine
    The e-book is available on Kindle/amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Going-Southern-No-Mess-Guide-Success-ebook/dp/B00D8F287C/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=
    Deborah Levine
    15/11/2017 #4 Deborah Levine
    #2 Delighted that you approve @Harvey Lloyd. No small matter!
    Deborah Levine
    15/11/2017 #3 Deborah Levine
    Yes @Harvey Lloyd, playing the music for them is always great fun, but you should see me teaching them to square dance. I learned Turkey in the Straw/Virginia Reel growing up in Bermuda - British roots to contra dance and all that. #1
    Harvey Lloyd
    15/11/2017 #2 Harvey Lloyd
    A bee is discussing the US southern culture and its evolution. The video is not only accurate but adds to the culture.
    Harvey Lloyd
    15/11/2017 #1 Harvey Lloyd
    Wow, can i say wow. For a "come here" as i have heard the label stated in southern states, meaning you ain't from here, with politeness, you really hit some highlights of southern culture. Southern Pride is something that is evolving but hasn't gone anywhere. We take God and country very seriously, not always correctly but very seriously. I added the read to the list. Thanks.

    Ps. i would have loved to have seen the group when you played the music.
  9. ProducerJim Murray

    Jim Murray

    Without Some Method, Any Creative Process Is, Sadly, Only Madness.
    Without Some Method, Any Creative Process Is, Sadly, Only Madness.I’m always busy. If I’m not busy doing work for my clients I’m busy marketing my business. It’s like a cyclone or hurricane that has been swirling around me since the early 1970s.I’ve been in this hurricane for so long that I truly believe I would...


    Cyndi wilkins
    17/11/2017 #11 Cyndi wilkins
    "Everybody needs some sort of method or structure to work within. Not having this structure will invariably reduce the chances of actually getting anything done."

    If you could read my mind love...what a tale my thoughts would tell;-)

    Great piece @Jim Murray...A very succinct recipe for layering the groundwork in the creative process. One ingredient at a time...
    Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    16/11/2017 #9 Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    Compartmentalizing is a great term. I often have multiple projects running simultaneously. I extend the idea to a project basis too.

    Great stuff, Jimbo
    Jim Murray
    16/11/2017 #8 Jim Murray
    #7 Thanks @Randall Burns. I always appreciate your thoughtful comments.
    Randall Burns
    16/11/2017 #7 Randall Burns
    Great post @Jim Murray, very helpful. I'm working on something now and will consciously apply these tips. I understand the "compartmentalization", I find it useful for when I have a variety of ideas which I keep in a "vault" on my desktop, working and adding to them as the thoughts come to me although when I have something in the "forefront", like the one I mentioned I will work on that from start to finish.
    Insightful and helpful contribution, Thanks.
    Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
    16/11/2017 #6 Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
    Yep, I like this line too "Be part of the stuff that makes the world a better place. And don’t let anything or anyone discourage you."
    Jim Murray
    16/11/2017 #5 Jim Murray
    #3 Thanks @Robert Cormack, From The Other Lake.
    Jim Murray
    16/11/2017 #4 Jim Murray
    #2 I actually had the privilege of observing his process from the time he conceived the songs for the Sundown album until it was complete. It was fascinating and one of the best learning experiences of my life.
    Robert Cormack
    15/11/2017 #3 Robert Cormack
    There's a lot to be said for compartmentalizing, @Jim Murray, and you've certainly said a lot. Thanks.
    Kevin Pashuk
    15/11/2017 #2 Kevin Pashuk
    Thanks for the cultural reference of the musician who cannot be named... I cut my musical teeth on Gordon's work, and modeled my guitar playing after the wonderful finger-picking and chord patterns of his songs. He was actually the first professional musician I ever saw in concert, in the intimate gymnasium of Dryden High School, in North Western Ontario. I still play his tunes, including the epic Canadian Railroad Trilogy. Now that's compartmentalization at work...
    Pascal Derrien
    15/11/2017 #1 Pascal Derrien
    ''Be part of the stuff that makes the world a better place. And don’t let anything or anyone discourage you.'' copy that :-)
  10. ProducerPaul "Pablo" Croubalian
    Nobody Cares about Your Feelings. Deal with it
    Nobody Cares about Your Feelings. Deal with itRANT MODE ONMaybe it's my inner Grouchy-Old-Man talking. Maybe my points are silly. Maybe they're profound. Whatever, this is how I feel. Yes, I see the irony in writing a post titled, "Nobody cares about your feelings," that is really my feelings...


    Brian McKenzie
    18/11/2017 #44 Brian McKenzie
    Here in Bishkek, girls & women ask permission to speak to me.
    I see no reason to ever darken the western mindset again.
    Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    17/11/2017 #43 Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    #42 You're very welcome, @Jerry Fletcher
    Jerry Fletcher
    17/11/2017 #42 Jerry Fletcher
    Paul, Thank you! You made my day. Although there was a laugh in there I can say that there is more than a grain of truth on what the world has come to. As a speaker who can get passionate about Networking and Brand and Trust Based business development I often warn audiences that, "I've been told by some folks that I'm not socially correct. Some of what I have to say may offend some of you. But it will be the truth as I see it. If I piss you off, so be it. If I make some of you laugh with my observations that is okay by me. No matter what reaction you have you'll come out of here better off if you own your feelings. Ain't it great to get to the age where you really don't give damn what others think of you!
    Robert Cormack
    17/11/2017 #41 Robert Cormack
    Ah, well, @Kevin Pashuk, I had a sneaking suspicion nobody was thinking about me at all when I was constantly asked who I was and why was I hanging around the halls. Once they discovered I'd been working there 3 years, I ceased being a topic of conversation entirely—until it was decided I could be bluffing. When they found out I wasn't bluffing, I ceased being a topic of conversation entirely because I was boring. I've since told everyone I'm bluffing.#38
    Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    17/11/2017 #40 Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    #36 LOL, that reminds of the old joke about a woman who called the police because her male neighbor walked around in the nude.

    When the Cops came, all they saw was a waist-up view. When questioned, the woman answered, "Yes, but if you stand on the kitchen counter, lean out holding the light fixture for balance, while holding this mirror over your head, you can see his junk!"
    Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    17/11/2017 #39 Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    #37 LMAO
    Kevin Pashuk
    17/11/2017 #38 Kevin Pashuk
    #34 Robert... so you reached the age where you don't care what people think about you anymore. I hear the next milestone is when you realize they were never thinking about you at all. I have hit that milestone.
    Kevin Pashuk
    17/11/2017 #37 Kevin Pashuk
    #33 It's a good thing that this wasn't on the menu with the chicken breasts... https://www.epicurious.com/recipes/food/views/spotted-dick-103210
    Wayne Yoshida
    17/11/2017 #36 Wayne Yoshida
    #32 #33 -- This is a very touchy area in our post Anita Hill era. Many years ago, three of us guys in the sales dept were called into HR one day. We were being accused for harassment because of our "locker room" jokes and stories. The accuser was in a cubicle adjacent to mine.

    We immediately changed our location for these discussions. . . . and the accuser **followed** us and reported us again, saying she could still hear our stories and jokes.

    I caught her one day standing on her chair so she could eavesdrop. . . and then reported her to HR. All charges in our files were removed. She was sent to therapy and anger management sessions.

    Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    17/11/2017 #35 Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    #34 Thanks, @Robert Cormack, that's high praise coming from you. . . Your posts are often funny as all get out
    Robert Cormack
    17/11/2017 #34 Robert Cormack
    Good one, @Paul "Pablo" Croubalian, lay your "grouch" out there, tackle those "feelings of awkwardness" and grow your beard. You and I are of that age when we really don't have to care anymore (although we do, or we wouldn't be writing about it). Thanks for the post.
    Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    17/11/2017 #33 Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    #32 You said, "Good Morning?" How dare you, you PERVERT!!! LMFAO

    Sometimes, conversations can be taken out of context. In the restaurant, I once tossed 10kg of chicken breasts that were delivered that same day. I confronted the employee who signed for them telling her, "Check your breasts, please. Before you take anything in the back (I meant the fridge), make sure your breasts are clean and firm (chicken breasts). There should be no sliminess or any smell at all. Take one out (chicken again) and check if you have to. If you're not sure, come show them to me."

    An intern who overheard this freaked out. A good rule of thumb would be if the person spoken to doesn't seem threatened or harassed, you probably misunderstood.
    Brian McKenzie
    17/11/2017 #32 Brian McKenzie
    I worked at a large insurance company for 90 days, I got picked up as a permanent after that. Every day as a temp - I had to sign in with the receptionist and said "Good Morning" everyday. As a company employee - I didn't have to sign in, but still said " Good Morning" Two weeks in, I get called in for an HR 'sit down' because Good Morning was being presented as Sexual Harassment. I stayed two more weeks, took the Broker Test and moved from claims to sales. The move was more money and a new floor.
    I found out that the receptionist had filed several other complaints against others - I recommended they upgrade their security to include audio. All charges were subsequently dropped and she was fired.
    This was the shit in 1992 - it has only moved exponentially worse.
    You interact at your own risk and folly.
    #MGTOW 😒
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    17/11/2017 #31 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    I love your rants @Paul "Pablo" Croubalian! You brought up a good point about the woman using the term "sexual harassment" & told her friend to "report him to HR" with the culture we are facing today. No, he should not be reported and NO that is not harassment! I had a boss once who used to come into my office and he would start trying to rub my back and shoulders. I wasn't comfortable with that and would say, "Knock it off Bryan!" He would back up, and say to me... what.. whaaa, you don't like that?" My reply, NO, I don't want your grubby hands on me. He did this more than once and the more I spoke out to him, the worse he treated me as an employee. I never once thought of reporting him, I felt I was able to stand my ground. I would just categorize him as a womanizer back then and a creep lol. Oddly, his wife divorced him, I wonder why?? I wasn't the only one he did that to.

    I did have a point to make above, I fear women may report every incident as sexual harassment if they feel they can. Yes, report if if you've truly been sexually harassed but don't cry wolf.

    As for Movember, Ok, looking to see if your fly was down, I literally laughed. People can be so anal... seriously, not comfortable with a beard? My husband and son are both participating in Movember too.. this is my son's third year, husbands first year. Kudos to you for participating too. My husband looks like a grubby mountain man right now haha. But, it's for a very good cause. For those that aren't aware, Movember is to raise awareness for suicide prevention and mental health issues in men. They grow mustaches and beards. Mustache in particular but many grow beards along with the mustache. KUDOS Men!!
    Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    17/11/2017 #30 Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    #28 Don't get me started on gender agnostic pronouns. They are probably the silliest idea I ever heard, and I've heard some doozies.

    Bizarre Ideas are like hemorrhoids. Sooner or later every asshole gets one.
    Nicole Chardenet
    17/11/2017 #29 Nicole Chardenet
    I'm in favour of having feelings, but I agree with Paul that they're *yours* to manage. Own them and deal with them, and try not to whinge so much!
    Nicole Chardenet
    17/11/2017 #28 Nicole Chardenet
    Killer post, Paul!!! I was just having a similar conversation tonight with a couple of gal pals, one of whom's my age and the other of whom is twenty years older. I was arguing that making a fuss over 'gender pronouns' is a sign that you have First World Problems. That 'safe spaces' primarily spring from the very real need to provide truly safe spaces for certain people, primarily abuse victims, to speak freely, but that it has since become an excuse to shield one's self from any inconvenient opinions someone else cares to yell down your echo chamber. That some people seriously need to just Suck It Up, Buttercup. Too much victimhood going around. I hope you talked that ditz bomb out of reporting that guy to HR. If that's the worst thing that happened to her all year, she leads a very charmed life indeed...
    Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    17/11/2017 #27 Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    #26 @Brian McKenzie, you make me feel old. In 1975, I just graduated high school and starting (don't laugh people) pre-med
    Brian McKenzie
    17/11/2017 #26 Brian McKenzie
    #6 nailed it - I have been seeing that on old biker jackets since the70's - first time I used it was Kindergarden in 1975. It got me exactly reaction you would expect from someone that was at the crayon & nappy-time level.
    Nothing has changed.
    Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    17/11/2017 #25 Paul "Pablo" Croubalian
    #24 Thanks, @Charlene Norman. I was never comfortable writing rants until Jimbo convinced me it was Okay if done with some humor. You got yourself a great partner there.
  11. ProducerPhil 🐝 Johnson, MBL and Brand Ambassador @beBee
    Leading Revolutionary Change
    Leading Revolutionary ChangeFor the rest of us to profit, we need the leadership of “greater fools.” Most people spend their life trying not to be the greater fool. The greater fool is someone with the perfect blend of self-delusion and ego to think that he can succeed...


    Bill Stankiewicz, 🐝 Brand Ambassador
    16/11/2017 #2 Bill Stankiewicz, 🐝 Brand Ambassador
    WOW: LEADING CHANGE HERE AT APICS: We sincerely hope you will join our Savannah Chapter membership, and you can do so via à http://www.apics.org/apics-for-individuals/membership-application/welcome View more
    WOW: LEADING CHANGE HERE AT APICS: We sincerely hope you will join our Savannah Chapter membership, and you can do so via à http://www.apics.org/apics-for-individuals/membership-application/welcome. And, APICS Memberships are FREE for students. Close
    Bill Stankiewicz, 🐝 Brand Ambassador
    16/11/2017 #1 Bill Stankiewicz, 🐝 Brand Ambassador
    LEADING CHANGE HERE AT APICS: We sincerely hope you will join our Savannah Chapter membership, and you can do so via à http://www.apics.org/apics-for-individuals/membership-application/welcome View more
    LEADING CHANGE HERE AT APICS: We sincerely hope you will join our Savannah Chapter membership, and you can do so via à http://www.apics.org/apics-for-individuals/membership-application/welcome. And, APICS Memberships are FREE for students. Close
  12. ProducerBryan McMillan

    Bryan McMillan

    Bryan McMillan: Empowering Your Sales and Marketing Strategy
    Bryan McMillan: Empowering Your Sales and Marketing StrategyAs leader of The Issachar Group, LLC, it is Bryan McMillan’s goal to help each client reach their true and fullest potential. Through executive consultancy that includes such integral services as strategy, business development, and mergers &...
  13. ProducerDenise M Barry

    Denise M Barry

    Creating & Sustaining A True Customer Service Oriented Culture
    Creating & Sustaining A True Customer Service Oriented CultureIt sounds a little cliché now, but traditional thought still holds if you want your company to be successful you must always put the customer first.  But in my years in Leading and growing Sales Teams I have found this time and time again not to be...
  14. ProducerSherrell Storr

    Sherrell Storr

    No Excuses
    No Excuses Growing up it felt normal to have excuses. In fact I thought I deserved to have excuses. There were so many things that I could blame for life's shortcomings. Could it have been on my mother, who was a teen mom and choose "parties" over taking care...


    Sherrell Storr
    16/11/2017 #2 Sherrell Storr
    #1 #1 Hi Pascal. Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts. We actually agree. If you make an excuse you are not accepting the circumstance. Accept it by asking what can you do and what can you learn. We are in control to the point where we choose our actions and responses, in no way do I mean we control what happens. I really appreciate your 80% :-). Look forward to continuing our dialogues through this new found connection.
    Pascal Derrien
    15/11/2017 #1 Pascal Derrien
    I fully get where you are coming from yet I cannot fully subscribe to the vision , I don't know why I think circumstances can/should be integrated to one's make up and that's not giving oxygen to excuses which in my mind would come across parking a huge section of one's life... I am not sure we are fully in control I think we adapt and react I guess I am with you at 80% on that one :-)
  15. ProducerPhilip Calvert

    Philip Calvert

    What one of the true pioneers of Social Networking says is missing from today's Social Media landscape...
    What one of the true pioneers of Social Networking says is missing from today's Social Media landscape...The arrival of beBee on the Social Media scene is both exciting and refreshing.And what's been particularly heartening, is the immediate sense of Community that you experience when you immerse yourself in the site - something that unfortunately we...


    Larry Boyer, 🐝 Brand Ambassador
    16/11/2017 #1 Larry Boyer, 🐝 Brand Ambassador
    Ecademy was my favorite social network. Even years after it's gone I still have many friendships and business relationships from it. And it's exciting to see Penny with her new networking venture - The Business Cafe.
  16. ProducerCharles McKenny

    Charles McKenny

    "101 Marketing Strategies"
    "101 Marketing Strategies"101 Marketing Strategies is a 123-page ebook filled with practical marketing strategies you can use immediately in your business.These strategies have been tested "in the trench" during my 20 years as a professional strategic marketer. Here's some...


  17. ProducerPhil Friedman

    Phil Friedman

    Artificial Un-intelligence
    Artificial Un-intelligence ALL THE TALK ABOUT ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE APPEARS TO BE JUST THAT, TALK... A recent article in Forbes loudly purported to provide us with "10 Powerful Examples Of Artificial Intelligence In Use Today". Unfortunately, not one of the examples cited...


    Phil Friedman
    17/11/2017 #55 Phil Friedman
    Good points all, @Wayne Yoshida, I keep thinking of the quote from Pogo uttered along the shore of Lake Okeefenokee, "We have met the enemy and he is ... us. Like you, my major concern is that we'll buy all the BS spun the Prophets (or Profits) of AI, and ignore the hard fact that the little Wizards of Oz, the code engineers build their own values and biases into the machine programming and will then tell us the results have to be right because... "the computer says so."

    Like the manned space travel program, AI is over-represented and over-sold because otherwise the number and value of resources devoted to its development would not be tolerated. How expensive is, for example, Alexa per unit interaction versus a calendar hanging on the wall where you write down your appointments and reminders?

    "Alexa, what do I have scheduled today?"
    "Well, Boss, you have a lunch meeting with Donald Duck today, then a dental appointment at 3:00."

    Wow, that was worth it wasn't. And the conversation was so freakin' intelligent, wasn't it? Oh wait, Alexa can study my music selections and self-learn to lay my favorites automatically for me in the mornings while I drink my from the auto-brewer Alexa (he/she?) turned on at 6:00 am. Now ain't that an intelligent hoot. Well, if we think the parlor tricks are examples of intelligence, then we're all a lot more un-intelligent than most of us will admit. Thanks for joining the conversation.
    Wayne Yoshida
    17/11/2017 #54 Wayne Yoshida
    Thanks @Phil Friedman - the sad part of this trend is the un-intelligent public that are eating this stuff up. How are consumers and users going to control programmer bias (intentional for the profit prophets)?

    I believe this is the real issue, regardless of how intelligent or un-intelligent these systems become.

    I want control. Heck, I don't do grocery shopping online since I am particular about picking banana ripeness.

    Any self-driving car will have to decide:
    Move the car to the left to avoid hitting the pedestrian - or move the car to the right to avoid vehicle damage?

    Is this what we want? Giving control to someone or something else?

    All this AI business reminds me of many science fiction stories -- and the warnings of what might happen.

    Including this old Star Trek episode, "The Ultimate Computer"

    Phil Friedman
    17/11/2017 #53 Phil Friedman
    #52 The material you cite, Bengt, illustrates, I believe, my contention that the Prophets (or Profits) of AI work hard to hijack the term "Intelligence". For example, you quote Stuart Russell as saying, "The manufacture and use of autonomous weapons, such as drones, tanks, and automated machine guns, would be devastating for human security and freedom, and the window to halt their development is closing fast, Russell warned." I suggest to you that so-called autonomous weapons are not autonomous at all. They may be programmed to acquire targets according to certain parameters and to destroy those targets without further control being exercised, but they do not judge what actions to perform in light of accepted objectives or goals.-- which latter involves true intelligence.

    Drones may be remotely operated or even self-guided, but that does not make them intelligent. I've mounted an argument to explain why I believe such machines, even if self-learning and self-correcting, are NOT intelligent. You are, of course, entitled to your opinion, but simply making the counter statement that certain war machines are intelligent, without explaining why you say that, doesn't really address my point. Thank you for reading and commenting. Cheers!
    Bengt Hahlin
    16/11/2017 #52 Bengt Hahlin
    Well, one aspect of AI that is not very much discussed is its use in the military. Killer AI robots now exist and the bulk of these technological developments are military funded in UK, China, Israel, Russia, and the United States. Although, fully autonomous weapons systems have not yet been deployed on the battlefield, but they are integrated in some of the existing systems and can be “turned on” at any time.

    This video shows some of the existing capabilities: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9CO6M2HsoIA

    Stuart Russell, a world leading AI researcher at the University of California in Berkeley, said: “The manufacture and use of autonomous weapons, such as drones, tanks and automated machine guns, would be devastating for human security and freedom, and the window to halt their development is closing fast, Russell warned. The technology illustrated in the film is simply an integration of existing capabilities. It is not science fiction. In fact, it is easier to achieve than self-driving cars, which require far higher standards of performance.”

    In August this year, more than 116 of the world’s leading robotics and AI pioneers from 26 countries called on the UN to ban the development and use of killer robots.

    The open letter here: https://futureoflife.org/autonomous-weapons-open-letter-2017/
    Phil Friedman
    15/11/2017 #51 Phil Friedman
    #50 Of course, Cyndi, the Prophets of AI will tell you that the right machine-generated words spoken by the best machine-generated voice can convey "love and compassion" just as well as a human being, if coupled with a machine-learning program that gathers empirical data on the responses of the dying to the ministrations of the "Dying Support Bot" (Ida). Assuming they actually believe that and are not just spoofing (or maybe punking) us, they can only believe such because their primary mode of connection is digital. For, as I think you and I will for a change agree, nothing substitutes for non-verbal physical contact, person to person or even human person to animal person. My hope for the future is that we reject the false claims of the Profits [sic] of AI.
    Cyndi wilkins
    15/11/2017 #50 Cyndi wilkins
    #49 Yes...that was somehow the claim too...that they were developing a program to help such patients with their feelings of 'loneliness' in the dying process. That is what palliative caregivers are for...people are being replaced by machines every day...but there is no computer program for love and compassion.
    Phil Friedman
    15/11/2017 #49 Phil Friedman
    #48 If reported accurately, it is the brainchild of some Prophets of AI chasing the Profits of AI. Concurrent with such developments is the push to “humanize” the machine-generated voices and name the programs in order to advance the illusion they are somewhat sentient and our “friends”. If you don’t believe me, just ask Siri or Alexa.
    Cyndi wilkins
    15/11/2017 #48 Cyndi wilkins
    #19 "No woman (in her right mind) would invent a stupid thing that destroyed industries, livelihoods and communities all under the guise of grand progress."

    Rock on @Charlene Norman...great comment on a great post;-)

    @Phil Friedman...I read an article recently about such AI being developed for use in 'end of life' care for patients without family members helping to deal with the difficult decision making process of having one's affairs in order as the are struggling with the emotional impact of impending death. Can't wrap my head around around that one. Seems we just keep getting further and further away from our humanity...
    Phil Friedman
    15/11/2017 #47 Phil Friedman
    #46 Thanks for the kind words, @Jim Murray. I think, though, a large part of the credit for the high level of the discussion here belongs to the commenters. And I agree with you, BTW, that engagement emerges spontaneously when you speak your mind, authentically and without guile. It also helps, I think, not to take oneself too seriously. But then you already know that. Cheers!
    Jim Murray
    15/11/2017 #46 Jim Murray
    This is really a good object lesson for people trying to increase their engagement....Write about something meaningful. Write it like you mean it. No compromises or other forms of intellectual fraud. And lo and behold the people, and their considered opinions, will burst forth. Thanks, Professor Phil.
    Phil Friedman
    15/11/2017 #45 Phil Friedman
    #44 For the most part, Zacharias, I do not take exception to anything you've said here. Seems to me a particularly good summary analysis. I also agree with your point that machines are not, and will not likely ever be, sentient.

    Where we may differ somewhat is in the fact that I don't see problem-solving as necessarily intelligent -- especially when it involves a step-by-step progression through a binary decision tree that embodies a huge but finite dataset and number of branches. I believe that before being co-opted by the Prophets (or Profits) of AI, the term "intelligent" meant having the ability to make (correct or adequate) decisions without systematically counting down through all the possible alternatives.

    I don't deny that a machine program can be created to land an airliner better than any human pilot can. But I wonder why the proponents of "AI" want to create for that machine program as human sounding a voice as possible. And why are they at pains to give them human sounding names? I suspect it is to grow the misperception that such machines have a potential for emergent sentience.

    There is a danger in all of this that Peter and, I think, you hint at. Once the calculating power of self-learning machines outstrips our ability to perform checks on whether they are developing correctly, we will be left in the position of completely depending on what the computers tell us. And if I were to give in to cynicism, I'd suspect that is what the Prophets of AI want.

    Thank you for reading and joining the conversation. Cheers!
    Zacharias 🐝 Voulgaris
    15/11/2017 #44 Zacharias 🐝 Voulgaris
    I think we need to discern between intelligence and sentience. Human intelligence has both and in all our observations in nature, these two are strongly correlated. However, A.I., at least in its current paradigm, is just intelligence, void of sentience. To make matters worse, the way it is implemented, it is highly unlikely that it will ever be sentient, i.e. self-aware. The reason is, as you pointed out, that A.I. is talked about by profits, not people who have some intuitive knowledge of the future. It's in no-one's interest to create sentient machine, though such A.I. systems are bound to continue to feature in sci-fi films and books, since they are interesting and pose certain philosophical questions that haven't been saturated yet.

    So, even though A.I. is by no means sentient or anything close to the sophistication of human intelligence, it is still a form of intelligence that can be quite useful to us. Perhaps its use cases are not as diverse as the A.I. fanboys like to think, but they are definitely meaningful from a business perspective. Also, despite the inevitable boost in productivity that such a paradigm is poised towards, it is unlikely to destabilize the economy any time soon.

    To sum up, A.I. is a very interesting and promising technology and scientific field but it has nothing to do with the A.I. systems we see in films or in well-written novels, like those of Isaac Asimov. It is bound to help increase our productivity, but the A.I. based machines are unlikely to take over the world any time soon. Now, whether people profit from these innovations, there is no doubt, just like some people profit from spreading fear of A.I. Armageddon. However, those of us who have worked with A.I. systems tend to view them more dispassionately and take what these false prophets say with a pinch of salt...
    Phil Friedman
    15/11/2017 #43 Phil Friedman
    #42 Well, Peter, as a graduate student I worked with two-value propositional calculus and binary decision trees -- which no doubt colors my perspective.

    That said, please understand I do not, in the main, take exception to the facts you recite. However, what you describe is machine learning, a process in which programs self-improve and self-correct based on an ever-growing empirical dataset against which the programs measure their own successes and errors.

    My problem with the Prophets (or Profits) of Artificial Intelligence is that they work very hard to redefine -- or more accurately, hijack -- the concept of "intelligence". For example, you yourself say of AI, "It’s not as imaginative as human intelligence, but it can be as rational." I disagree with the phrasing. I would say it is not imaginative or free-ranging as genuine (human) intelligence, but as the empirical datasets grow large enough and available computing power grows to where the resolution of the binary decision trees can be completed in a practical period of time, it can be as or more accurate in many circumstances.

    But even if that is the case, I submit that what is currently called "AI" is still un-intelligent. Thank you for reading and commenting.
    Peter Altschuler
    15/11/2017 #42 Peter Altschuler
    I’ve worked in AI, @Phil Friedman, since 1991, so my perspective is a little bit different.

    Back in the early, “pioneering” days of artificial intelligence, the applications were, essentially, knowledge-engineered assistants — rules that helped less experienced employees access the knowhow of the most skilled. That evolved into case-based reasoning, which helped workers solve problems through a relatively normal process of elimination.

    Yet IBM’s Watson and Cray’s Urika are truly able to take generalized “fuzzy” input and discover patterns in Big Data that humans might not detect. As results are presented and are accepted or rejected by human programmers or domain experts, those systems are able to determine what’s right, wrong, appropriate, and/or irrelevant. With each successive iteration, the conclusions become more accurate. On an admittedly rudimentary level, that’s learning. And learning requires intelligence... however artificial it may be.

    The Mayo Clinic has used Urika to parse case histories to find correlations for cancer treatment — relationships related to genetics, medications (both specifically for cancer and for other ailments that proved beneficial for cancer), and treatment regimens, such as combinations of chemo and radiation therapies. It’s been used to spot patterns of fraud in financial transactions, detect cyber threats, and even assemble the best talent for a baseball team.

    It’s not as imaginative as human intelligence, but it can be as rational. The fear we should have is that it can become perceptive enough to initiate action without being programmed to perform it. And that, unless we’re very, very careful, could be the future.
    Randall Burns
    14/11/2017 #41 Randall Burns
    #37 I don't agree with that sentiment, as you say it is THEFT, pure and simple. like the comment I left on your article on LinkedIn I believe in karma and it will catch up with people,

    "Time is longer than rope"
    Randall Burns
    14/11/2017 #40 Randall Burns
    #35 LMAO!!! and you say that you're not a funny guy!
    Phil Friedman
    14/11/2017 #39 Phil Friedman
    #38 Thank you, @Charlene Norman, for the kind rant. Intellectually, I get it. Gut-wise, it really pisses me off not to be smarter about these things. It also upsets me to think that plagiarism may be infecting beBee. Cheers!
    Charlene Norman
    14/11/2017 #38 Charlene Norman
    #36 Listen man, that is the dumbest thing I have read today. Come up with a damn good idea, craft a mighty fine post, cite another person's work, find out said article posted was a fraud, highlight the fraud and then apologize because you did not VERIFY said source before you cited it. Jeepers man, we all trust you. With or without your superhero cape or tights or whatever you wear when you write. It is not ALSO our responsibility to CLEAR the sources we cite. it is ONLY our responsibility to cite them. You are human. We don't expect you to be perfect 100000% of the time. Rant over. Carry on darlin' .
    Phil Friedman
    14/11/2017 #37 Phil Friedman
    #34 I have shared a link to it on beBee, several times, @Randall Burns. But it never generated much notice, indeed, a few Honey Bees even remarked that it was too harsh and that we should have some sympathy for those who steal intellectual property. So I concluded it's a lost cause on beBee.
    Phil Friedman
    14/11/2017 #36 Phil Friedman
    #33 My fault for not checking before citing the piece -- since it was one of the best on the subject I'd ever read. Cheers!
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  19. ProducerRenée  🐝 Cormier
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    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    14/11/2017 #11 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    Thanks for commenting and sharing @David B. Grinberg
    David B. Grinberg
    14/11/2017 #10 David B. Grinberg
    Thanks for the great advice, Renee. I really like your pragmatic approach. Keep buzzing! cc: @Graham🐝 Edwards
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    13/11/2017 #9 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    #7 Agreed! Thanks for your comment @Jerry Fletcher
    Jerry Fletcher
    12/11/2017 #7 Jerry Fletcher
    Renee, Once again the ivory tower meets the real world and the approach taught loses. I've never understood why professors look down their noses at the people that make a living by their wits not tenure. One of my ongoing consulting treats is when a client "gets it" and their presentation deck is minimal, primarily graphics and limited words. The information in written form does not have to be the same as the pitch. It can and should include more information but should still hone to your points. Excellent advice.
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    12/11/2017 #6 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    #4 My short attention span never afforded me either the discipline or the desire to sit through anything long and tedious. I'm a "just the facts, ma'am" kind of gal. You may have a point about bulk being a hangover of our life in school. I once had a moron on an English prof who actually told us that if we didn't pad our bibliography we would fail. He seemed to think the sign of a good researcher was his or her ability to write bullshit.
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    12/11/2017 #5 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    #2 That's very kind! Thanks, Phil and thanks for sharing as well.
    Robert Cormack
    12/11/2017 #4 Robert Cormack
    The worst presentations (essentially pitches) I've ever been involved in revolved around people believing "they got it all in there." I'd read their work, wondering why they thought giving clients back their own information was so important. One woman said to me, "Clients like bulk." She eventually headed up the agency and nearly destroyed it. As much as what you say is true, @Renée 🐝 Cormier, people seek protection in "bulk." I remember my students telling me about another teacher at the college asking for huge amounts of information in their presentations. Colleges are full of these teachers and it goes from there. Bulk baffles brains. Thanks for your post. Thanks for the brevity.
    Brian McKenzie
    12/11/2017 #3 Brian McKenzie
    Get in, Get it on, Get the money, Get OUT. .....My old Unit Motto.
    Phil Friedman
    12/11/2017 #2 Phil Friedman
    @Renée 🐝 Cormier, this piece is sharp, concise, tough. Pretty impressive considering that @Graham🐝 Edwards led us to believe you're under the weather these days. You do better firing on four cylinders than most people firing on all eight. Cheers!
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    @Irene 🐝 Rodriguez Escolar aquí tenemos otro elemento indeseable en el comentario! Lo puedes reportar por favor? Gracias!,
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    Prisciliano (Nano) Fernandez
    17/11/2017 #18 Anonymous
    Ejerciendo mi derecho a opinar, por el presente comentario quiero expresar que estoy de acuerdo al 100% con tus afirmaciones, Amaya.

    Y una vez expresada mi opinión libremente, me tomo el atrevimiento de hacerte una sugerencia: “NO CAMBIES” aunque no soy quien para privarte del derecho a “cambiar”.
    Carmen 🐝 Juanes Luis
    14/11/2017 #17 Carmen 🐝 Juanes Luis
    #15 Gracias a ti @Amaya Marcos Postiguillo. Un fuerte abrazo.
    Amaya Marcos Postiguillo
    14/11/2017 #16 Amaya Marcos Postiguillo
    #10 Muchísimas gracias ti Isabel Díaz por tu aportación y tus comentarios.
    Tienes toda la razón.
    Un fuerte abrazo.
    Amaya Marcos Postiguillo
    14/11/2017 #15 Amaya Marcos Postiguillo
    #9 Efectivamente @Carmen 🐝 Juanes Luis.
    Tan importante, tan fácil cuando se sabe y tan complicado cuando se desconoce.
    Por eso, fundamental conocer esos derechos asertivos, entendiendo que son válidos para uno mismo y para el otro.
    Además, como yo escribía y como tú has expuesto, ese respeto con el que nos gustaría nos trataran a nosotros mismos.
    A veces es bueno parar en una conversación que no nos lleva a ningún sitio para hacernos esa pregunta: ¿estoy tratando y comunicándome con mi receptor como desearía se comunicasen conmigo?
    Gracias Carmen y un fuerte abrazo.
    Amaya Marcos Postiguillo
    14/11/2017 #14 Amaya Marcos Postiguillo
    #8 Muchísimas gracias @Sonia 🐝 Quiles Espinosa
    Un abrazo muy fuerte
    Amaya Marcos Postiguillo
    14/11/2017 #13 Amaya Marcos Postiguillo
    #7 Yolanda Ávila, maravillosa aportación!!
    Muchísimas gracias!
    Además, comentas algo muy importante, qué quiero conseguir, ese para qué? que se utiliza tanto en psicología.
    Me ha encantado Yolanda.
    Un fuerte abrazo.
    Amaya Marcos Postiguillo
    14/11/2017 #12 Amaya Marcos Postiguillo
    #6 Gracias Cristina Aurin.
    Un abrazo.
    Amaya Marcos Postiguillo
    14/11/2017 #11 Amaya Marcos Postiguillo
    #5 Gracias @Vega 🐝 Gómez Hernández !!
    Qué maravilla leer tus comentarios.
    Como bien dices, el respeto no es una opción, es fundamental, aunque a veces se nos olvide.
    Creo que es muy buena idea imprimir esa lista y tenerla en algún sitio donde podamos verla para que no se nos olviden.
    Un fuerte abrazo!
    Isabel 🐝 Díaz   Durán
    14/11/2017 #10 Isabel 🐝 Díaz Durán
    Buen artículo Amaya, si todos siguiésemos estas pautas, la comunicación sería mucho más fluida y se evitarían muchos conflictos. Un saludo
    Carmen 🐝 Juanes Luis
    13/11/2017 #9 Carmen 🐝 Juanes Luis
    Tan fácil y tan difícil @Amaya Marcos Postiguillo, "tratar al otro con el respeto que se merece, aquél con el que desearíamos nos trataran a nosotros mismos".
    Para reflexionar.
    Sonia 🐝 Quiles Espinosa
    13/11/2017 #8 Sonia 🐝 Quiles Espinosa
    El respeto fundamental Amaya!! Estupendo Post 👏👏
    Yolanda Ávila Márquez
    13/11/2017 #7 Yolanda Ávila Márquez
    Para mí, una de las cosas más importantes a la hora de hablar con otra persona es tener clara la intención con la que lo hago. Parece algo sencillo o normal pero no lo es. La pregunta a hacerse es ¿qué pretendo al hablar o decirle esto a esta persona? ¿Qué busco?

    Con tu permiso Amaya, complemento tu producer con una recomendación.
    En esta TEDx el experto Julian Treasure habla de cómo hablar para que te escuchen https://goo.gl/qPzztM
    En esta otra habla sobre cómo recuperar o mejorar (según personas) nuestra capacidad de escucha https://goo.gl/VnD2dN
    Ambas muy interesantes para reflexionar sobre nuestra forma de comunicarnos y de hablar con otras personas.
    Un saludo.
    Cristina Aurin Frade
    13/11/2017 #6 Cristina Aurin Frade
    Qué buen post!!! Lo pongo en mi lista de trabajos diarios. Muchas gracias!
    Vega 🐝 Gómez Hernández
    13/11/2017 #5 Vega 🐝 Gómez Hernández
    Es imprescindible comunicarse bien y para conseguirlo el respeto es fundamental. Simplemente, no es una opción. Esa lista de derechos que propones para interiorizar me gusta tanto que me la voy a imprimir para trabajarla mejor. Gracias Amaya 😊
    Amaya Marcos Postiguillo
    12/11/2017 #4 Amaya Marcos Postiguillo
    #3 Muchas gracias José Vicente.
    Efectivamente, hay que tener en cuenta esos derechos para no entrar en conflicto con nosotros mismos y poder expresarlos adecuadamente.
    Gracias por compartir.
    Un abrazo
    Jose Vicente Soldevila Puchol
    12/11/2017 #3 Jose Vicente Soldevila Puchol
    Muy interesante @Amaya Marcos Postiguillo. Lo comparto porque todos tenemos derechos y es bueno que nos lo recuerdes con todos los respetos.
    Amaya Marcos Postiguillo
    12/11/2017 #2 Amaya Marcos Postiguillo
    #1 Muchas gracias por tus palabras Juan.
    Efectivamente, la inteligencia emocional es elemento clave para la comunicación y, por supuesto, para las relaciones personales.
    En otras entradas he hablado de ella, por si te apetece echarle un vistazo.
    Gracias por compartir.
    Un abrazo
    Juan Madueño Criado
    12/11/2017 #1 Juan Madueño Criado
    Buen artículo compañera: teniendo en cuenta esos consejos es mucho más fácil moverse en el mundo social.

    La inteligencia emocional también nos da muchas claves para mantener relaciones duraderas, sinceras y mutuamente beneficiosas.

    Seguiré leyéndote con ganas, y voy a compartir este post en mis redes.
  24. ProducerAli 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
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    Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    17/11/2017 #72 Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    #71 you know your words resonate with me @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher. My youngest daughter is in Germany now. May be also the ease of communication has added to my peace of mind. But mostly due to Sara is a mature person to depend on her. In no way we shall have 100% peace of mind. However; I don't worry at the opposite extreme either.
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    17/11/2017 #71 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    #70 It really is a great feeling when we can sleep peacefully with no worries @Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee. I used to worry about my daughter a lot when she was a teen and in her early 20's. I did lose a lot of sleep then because I know females are vulnerable. Happily, they are both married and raising their own children and doing a great job! I'm glad you are very content :)) I'm sure your daughters all feel very special with their dad who is a good man with a good heart.
    Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    17/11/2017 #70 Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    #69 I assure you of one thing @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher. I am so happy anf contented with my daughters. Not only of my instinct love to them, but also djue to their respect for others, accomplishments and very healthy habits. It is great when we put our heads to sleep in peace and with no worry whstsoever from the kids.
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    17/11/2017 #69 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    oops, sorry I posted and it cut off my comment, so I'm reposting it :) I think I hit enter too fast.
    #56 I sounds like you and your wife had to create a fine balancing act with each other and raising your daughters together since you both did come from different backgrounds. From everything I've read, you've done a great job raising your girls together. I've often heard it can be hard for a man when he is surrounded in his home by all females ;-) The few photos I've seen of you with your daughter(s)?, I could see the love!!
    Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    15/11/2017 #67 Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    with little edition
    Lisa Vanderburg
    14/11/2017 #66 Lisa Vanderburg
    #25 couldn't agree more @James Olcott and @Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee#29 . we were very fortunate to be in our own business, so hubby took off pretty much a year and our kids were a year apart and we took them everywhere: we were very lucky! not many have that chance (cost us a fortune, but was well worth it). to have the father so delighted in his babies is pure blessing!
    Lisa Vanderburg
    14/11/2017 #65 Lisa Vanderburg
    #23 lol....i said 'tutelage', James. 'Leverage' sounds so....manipulative...?
    Lisa Vanderburg
    14/11/2017 #64 Lisa Vanderburg
    #12 just as well most female-dominant communities are considered non-human...for the delicacy of some males, dear @Debasish Majumder!
    Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    14/11/2017 #63 Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    #61 Instead of location-location-location in marketing I would say position-position-position for social studies. So, dear @Lisa Vanderburg I agree with your finishing lines "Parents never get it 100% right, but starting from falling in love with your baby really helps"! The starting position is falling in love with your baby. Yes, because love at this early stage is felt. Respect comes later as the kids grow up and mainly for the sons.
    Lisa Vanderburg
    14/11/2017 #62 Lisa Vanderburg
    #16 thank god for small mercies :)
    Lisa Vanderburg
    14/11/2017 #61 Lisa Vanderburg
    #9 #11 if it's of any help, i think good parenting just naturally means that parents adjust their ways according to the wont of their children. my brother has a 21 year old daughter that still sits on his lap in an act of natural love. i sure a hell would not have done that with my dad! boys tend to be more risk-takers; my boys were throwing a football when one slammed hard enough into a tree to scratch half his face off. it took every ounce NOT to run up and help him; he was about 14 and would hate it when i did that. my hubby said 'ouch...that'll smart' and then i could offer him a tissue ;)
    but all this sort of behavior comes naturally and the game keeps changing as they age; it normal. Parents never get it 100% right, but starting from falling in love with your baby really helps!
    Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    14/11/2017 #60 Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    #58 We need your "hands" dear @Lisa Vanderburg to communicate your brainy ideas.
    How about making "voice comments"? This is a suggestion to @Javier 🐝 beBee. Truly, why can't we make voice comments?
    I agree with you and I thank you Lisa for your elaboration.
    Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    14/11/2017 #59 Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    #57 Thank you @Pascal Derrien for your comment raises new issues. Can parents even if they are "perfect" deal with the issues and threats such as addiction? Social jealousy and drive to cope with the new environments in which grown up kids once they leave home are enormous. Societal pressures may lead even kids who were fortunate to have great homes to yield sometimes. Much more exposed are kids who were not that fortunate.
    Lisa Vanderburg
    14/11/2017 #58 Lisa Vanderburg
    #8 apologies @Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee, my arm's in a cast so typing is going to be basic. to answer your question i must first say my comments related to how NOT to allow a child to grow to a healthy and functional adult, so the 'daughter effect' refers to well raised women. on that assumption, i'd assume that men who serially are less inclined to hire a women of equal qualities to, say, another male applicant, have a problem with women.
    Pascal Derrien
    14/11/2017 #57 Pascal Derrien
    I think your questions are relevant with the caveat that it is probably and only applicable when parents are fit for parenting, dysfunctional units don't necessarily carry self awareness or have any appetite to entertain theoretical values as they are way too busy dealing with addiction, mental health or any other issues that life is throwing at them yet I guess your points are valid ... :-)
    Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    14/11/2017 #56 Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    #53 As usual, your comments have their special flavor @Lisa 🐝 Gallagher. You share examples from your own experiences. Therefore we believe in what you share and get moved by it.
    Let me share some of my own experience. My wife is half Circassian. They traditions are different from us. In their societies a girl must be treated like a queen. She must be given love. In contrast, the boys must be horsemen, manhood is of prime value to them. A man must show great respect for women. I have three daughters. You can see the attachment they have for their mother because she extended the same to them. I don't have a son and so would not be able to tell how would she have brought him up. However; I see the value of that "layer of love" covering the skins of the beloved. It has some drawbacks. My daughters are sensitive because they thought people are like mother. They got their disappointments, but learned fast the reality and adapted.
    Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    14/11/2017 #55 Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    #52 Thank you dear @Ned McDonnell. Your comment is superb. Not a single human is free of defaults. The defaults of the parents could be "transmitted" to their kids. Your step-wise approach is only logical "Parents shape us and they have their drawbacks, some permanent which create those stumbling-blocks with which each of us has to manage, one day at a time".
    You remind me of a post that I wrote sometimes ago in which I asked if human were born out of clay wouldn't they suffer the shortcomings of clay? Sometimes we see our parents as angels; they are not. However; I must add that the parents had more time to attend for their defaults than their kids.
    I thank you also for providing the link to the discussion that involved the initial discussions that led to the writing of this buzz. Like you, so is @James Olcott. It is great to get involved in these discussions with both of you.
    Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    14/11/2017 #54 Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    #51 We may lose respect, but faking it is much harder than faking love in my opinion. I could be wrong.
    Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    14/11/2017 #53 Lisa 🐝 Gallagher
    It's true, boys and girls do differ. I have to say from birth my son and daughter differed greatly. I worked when my son was growing up, went to part time with my daughter, eventually staying home. My son was needier of my attention than my daughter. He also enjoyed snuggling much more and a lot longer than my daughter. Looking back, I truly believe my son had separation anxiety because we had a bad experience with one babysitter.

    Everyone has their own 'space issues' too. My daughter is a lot like me, I need 3 ft of space between myself and others (just guestimating) and my son, well he's still loves to hug others he feels close to without seeming to have space issues.

    Every child has different needs. Both of my kids are very caring and aren't afraid to show emotion (my son in particular). It's odd, my son seems to be more like me emotionally and my daughter is a lot like her dad... brushes a lot off (even when I think she shouldn't), cracks jokes when it's obvious she may need to talk about something a bit more serious. She will eventually share her deepest feelings with me. My husband worked many long hours while our kids were growing up so they spent much more time with me. I raised my son with the hopes that he knew it was OKAY to show emotion and realize it was also okay to cry... I didn't want him growing up as the typical male stereotype.

    You wrote: "Babies find home the first place to socialize." Oh my gosh, yes! My granddaughter is so adjusted, she thinks her home is her palace and she is the princess of it. She's not spoiled though, I'm proud that my daughter is able to be stern if needed but she's careful how she uses her words.
    Ned McDonnell
    14/11/2017 #52 Ned McDonnell
    Great to see a warm discussion between two respected friends, James Olcott and Dr Ali Anani, with many other insights besides. Parents shape us and they have their drawbacks, some permanent which create those stumbling-blocks with which each of us has to manage, one day at a time. There are instances, occasionally important, however, where 'aspects' of my relationship with my father represent my not growing beyond a prism in childhood, though my father had. After a while, left unattended, that prison becomes a prison. James honoured me in two respects this week.
  25. ProducerFlavio 🇯🇵 Souza 🐝
    Is "Twitter Ads" worth your money?
    Is "Twitter Ads" worth your money?I like to save people's time by answering a question right the way, so here we go: The answer is NO and here is WHY.So, I have decided to try "twitter ads" to have a hands on experience and see if it is worth or not, below is a resume of my...


    Flavio 🇯🇵 Souza 🐝
    14/11/2017 #14 Flavio 🇯🇵 Souza 🐝
    Twitter only will have a real value when they get the fake profiles out of their system , one way to do it is to use the verified accounts path but they seem to prefer to make this function more "exclusive/royal" than I would have made it, so if they do not change their concept and continue to accept any profile into the system, they will die as clearly their ad function is rigged @David B. Grinberg#13
    David B. Grinberg
    14/11/2017 #13 David B. Grinberg
    Thanks for the blogging buzz, Flavio. I read somewhere that the hackers on Twitter are targeting the "verified" accounts, thus perhaps it's best not to have that blue check mark after all. What say you?
    Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
    13/11/2017 #12 Franci🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
    Thank you for this @Flavio 🇯🇵 Souza 🐝. I find it very informative.
    Zacharias 🐝 Voulgaris
    13/11/2017 #11 Zacharias 🐝 Voulgaris
    BTW, Dr. Muller from Veritasium, did an experiment with FB ads and found out that they too are useless as the "people" who visit his account because of the paid ads are indistinguishable from the people you'd pay on some random "like" fetching site on the web, even though FB states clearly that these are real people. Dr. Muller's experiment was very thorough and proved beyond doubt that whatever FB claims, the paid ads are a total scam...
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    13/11/2017 #10 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    #2 I will be sure to follow back!
    Flavio 🇯🇵 Souza 🐝
    13/11/2017 #9 Flavio 🇯🇵 Souza 🐝
    @Ali that exactly my point , when you do twitter ads you get (and pay for) fake profiles , so this was an alert, for everyone spend their money in something else #6
    Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    13/11/2017 #6 Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee
    Thank you @Flavio 🇯🇵 Souza 🐝. I wonder if same esults would extend to sentiments analysis. If we are measuring the sentiments of fake profiles then what value our analysis has?
    Fake profiles deprive the value of whatever we do
    Flavio 🇯🇵 Souza 🐝
    13/11/2017 #5 Flavio 🇯🇵 Souza 🐝
    Thanks @Zacharias 🐝 Voulgaris for the following , I followed you back as I hit gold, because you are a real person and I did not pay for you to follow me : ) #2
    Flavio 🇯🇵 Souza 🐝
    13/11/2017 #4 Flavio 🇯🇵 Souza 🐝
    "the Trumps and random Russian hookers" LOL #1
    Kevin Baker
    13/11/2017 #3 Kevin Baker
    #1 Really enjoy your candid, straight up prose
    Zacharias 🐝 Voulgaris
    12/11/2017 #2 Zacharias 🐝 Voulgaris
    #1 For what it's worth, I followed you on Twitter and I can assure you, I'm a real user (even though I don't spend too much time on it, something that beBee is to blame for!). I look forward to reading your tweets...
    Renée  🐝 Cormier
    12/11/2017 #1 Renée 🐝 Cormier
    Well isn't that interesting? I wrestle with the value of Twitter all the time. I have long suspected that most of the people who use Twitter rarely read anything. They will like or retweet a tweet they have never clicked on just to get noticed or to build their following. I once posted a picture of rat's asses on Twitter just to see what would happen. I wrote about it: https://www.bebee.com/producer/@renee-cormier/what-happened-when-i-posted-a-picture-of-a-rat-s-ass-on-twitter
    All of that makes me wonder why think we need to have 198K followers. You can't sell in a room full of sales people or engage with people who don't care.

    The other thing that bugs me about Twitter is that when you set up your account, you indicate your interests, and then it automatically has you following people like the Trumps and random Russian hookers. That hardly makes you look good in front of your clients, so you have to spend half an hour or more deleting profiles from the account.

    As for the ads, I watched some videos and read some blogs about targeting, but found it was just easier to follow the people I wanted to follow me back. The ads are costly in so much as the ROI is not really there. You can easily spend $1000 and never get a customer from those new followers. In fact, I have always gotten business from LI and never from Twitter. beBee has given me business relationships, an engaged audience and a way to demonstrate my expertise. I anticipate that as it grows, the business will flow quite well, so it is always worth my time to post here. I still use Twitter, but I consider it a small part of my social media marketing.
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