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Crimes Of Ignorance Part 3: The Designation of Women As Second Class Citizens

Crimes Of Ignorance Part 3: The Designation of Women As Second Class Citizens

The Friday FilesAs you can well imagine, any man writing about this subject is pretty much in a lose lose situation. You run the risk of pissing off other men who don’t want their prejudices aired. And you run the risk of pissing of women, especially feminists, because you’re not telling the whole story, or because you are telling it from the ‘male perspective’.
So call me Captain Fearless as I plod on regardless.
Let me first lay out my biases here. This will be easy because I only have one.
I am biased against stupidity. I have no time whatsoever for people who hold prejudices against other people simply because they have been told to hate and are too stupid and ignorant to even bother to question that dictum.
When it comes to the treatment of women in society , this, I am sad to say, quite likely includes, about half or more of the male population of the earth.
The Roots Of Gender Bias

Back in the beginning of humanity, gender roles were defined by the idea that the women, who bore and reared the children, would stay at home and take care of that. The men would go out and hunt for food.
It could just as easily been the other way round and in some cultures it actually was.
But the human race has grown up with these gender roles and over time they became stereotypes and biases.

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But with the coming of industrialization, women slowly started making their way into the work force. In fact, it could be argued that in both world wars, they actually were the work force, while the men, for the most part (because a lot of women went too), went off and fought the wars.
Ever since the early days of the women’s suffrage movement, women have been fighting for equal status with men. I personally have never seen anything wrong with that. But I am very much in the minority here.
In that mysterious way that prejudices get carried down through generations of men, who labour under the delusion that they are the superior sex, sexism and hatred of women is still quite common in our allegedly evolved society.
I’m only talking about North America and maybe Great Britain and Scandinavia here, because these are models I know and understand to some extent.
What happens in a great many Middle Eastern, Eastern European, African and Asian countries, often defies belief, because they tend to run on ancient tribal customs and don’t really seem to have any desire to modify their view of women as a lower class of human.
But sexism in places where you would think that is all but history is the stuff that fascinates me the most. Because these are the places where the women’s movement is the most active.
The letter contained in this article (link below) pretty much sums up what I think is a widely held belief by men in our society. If you are an enlightened person this will come as no surprise, even in this day and age.
http://www.upworthy.com/angry-about-wonder-woman-a-man-wrote-austins-mayor-a-letter-huge-mistake?c=ufb1

Domestic Violence & Prejudice Against Women

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mail.com | Skype:I have read many opinions during the recent US election from men who sincerely believed that someone like Hillary Clinton could never be elected president of the US, precisely because she is a woman and that country would never allow itself to be led by a female.
I have seen interviews with women who allegedly supported Trump, but who only did so, and by their own admission, because their husbands threatened then with physical harm if they did not vote that way.
Violence against women in the form of sexual assault and physical assault is at epidemic levels, and it really is a prime indicator of the amount of deep resentment towards women that is felt by men.
https://www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/23/domestic-violence-statistics_n_5959776.html
“On a global basis, the health burden from gender-based victimization is comparable to that from other conditions already high on the world agenda. Female-focused violence also represents a hidden obstacle to economic and social development. By sapping women's energy, undermining their confidence, and compromising their health, gender violence deprives society of women's full participation.”
Lori L. Heise, Jacqueline Pitanguy , Adrienne Germain
from Violence Against Women : The Hidden Health Burden
http://agris.fao.org/agris-search/search.do?recordID=US2012420219

Women As Second Class Corporate & Entrepreneurial Citizens

3bdf0551.jpgNot the most serious, but arguably the most public area of contention these days lies in the opportunities afforded women to succeed in the corporate and entrepreneurial worlds.
Rather than rail on about the inequities that are so obvious in the male dominated corporate world, I would refer you to this article in Forbes which really explains this issue in vivid detail.
https://www.forbes.com/sites/kathycaprino/2013/02/12/the-top-6-reasons-women-are-not-leading-in-corporate-america-as-we-need-them-to/#6ce6ea02406e

What Ca We Do About This?

The trouble with such a deeply ingrained and generations-old prejudice is that it will probably take as long to alleviate as it did to grow to the chronic level where it sits today.
It really is up to government to create access and support education initiatives that would help to level the perceptual playing field.
It’s up to businesses to start making more opportunities available to women, in much the same way as affirmative action did for minorities in the US.
It’s up to educators, especially at the high school and university levels to start educating young people about gender equality. It’s up to churches and civic organizations to do the same.
It’s up social media to generate conversations about gender equality.
It’s up to the court and penal systems to always include gender equality education for sexual and physical assault against women offenders.
And it’s up to parents to educate their children by their own example.
Unlike wide-spread diseases which are subject to politics and corporate pressure from drug and insurance companies, I believe that gender equality is something that could be achievable in societies like Canada and the US. Maybe not in my lifetime. But doable all the same
This all stems from my personal belief that all humanoids are created equal and should be treated as such in all circumstances.
And that any prejudices held by men towards women only serves to diminish them as human beings.

jim out. Have a great weekend.

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Comments

Jerry Fletcher

6 years ago #12

#22
Drive in? You still have those up there in the Northland?

Jerry Fletcher

6 years ago #11

#21
Paul, She was. They used long shots and closeups plus green screen technology to hide the belly bump when necessary.

Jim Murray

6 years ago #10

#20
Yeah. I'm kind of interested in Wonder Woman. We may go see it at the drive-in. I don't go to movie theatres anymore. People are uncouth.

Jerry Fletcher

6 years ago #9

Jim, As usual, food for thought. Here's something that might help folks clear up some of the stupidity. Go see the new movie Wonder Woman. Yes, it is based on a comic book but one with a real difference. The super person is a woman. Her back story clarifies how women leaders are different. The director of this flat out adventure, guts and glory movie is a woman. The star is Israeli and served in their armed forces. If only we had that truth-seeking lasso she wields...
#18
Hell, NO. I had two kids to support. I took the position and loved it until my estranged husband died. They probably thought my complicated grief at the loss of my mate was due to hormones.

John Rylance

6 years ago #7

The Amasonian Women did as you considered so that they could fire arrows more accurately. The only way the interview question would valid is if all candidates regardless of gender were asked it, even then its relevance would be questionable. I imagine even if they offered you the post you would have refused it. Until we ban the idea that as Orwell wrote " some are more equal than others" and its companion "First among equals" equality won't truly exist. Sometimes we forget we need to earn or prove we have the right to equality. #16
Good story and Kudos. I went through life thinking I was a person only to find my gender defined me. My tits held me back. I've often said I just want to cut them off, but that would do no good. I've always done what is considered to be male things. I gutted my second floor and rewired it. When people would wonder how I did it, I never shouted out for women; I just said, "Necessity is the Mother of invention." Mother of invention--look at that women can do things afterall. I struggled to gain recognition in an engineering department, but my interview for the job included the question, "What do you use for birth control?" Gender stalked me at every turn in my life. It's got to stop.

John Rylance

6 years ago #5

I think the problem is the word "gender." If we need an adjective to describe the equality perhaps it should be " human equality", which links in with " human rights", which show no gender bias, or for that matter race, colour, or creed. All of which embrace the 3Rs Rights Respect and Responsibility. Also gender equality is not just purely a male female issue, but one that includes gays, transgender etc. Individuals all of whom come under the umbrella of humans. Finally I have often subscribed to the French phrase "Vive le difference"

Ken Boddie

6 years ago #4

Many thanks, Jim, for providing your own take on this issue, but equally importantly, for providing some useful links to add clarity. I am currently involved in research concerning women (or lack thereof) in the engineering profession (at all levels) and particularly found your Forbes link to Kathy Caprino''s article of interest. An important social bias falacy, which is still being reinforced, is that women are less capable of, or inept at, practising the sciences and engineering. This is introduced in early childhood, and propagated in later life, by task coding of the sexes, such as the obvious practices of only providing building games (eg Lego, Mechano) for boys and steering girls towards playing with dolls. Boys are invariably encouraged to engage in 'hunting' or'foraging' tasks and girls to domestic nurturing and "gathering' tasks. It would appear that our social and psychological roots are still firmly emplanted In the 'cave'. To further evolve into a more egalitarian society, wrt the battle of the sexes, we all need to be aware of our natural and learnt sexual biases.

Jim Murray

6 years ago #3

#6
ThanksNicole Chardenet. I agree totally with your comment. My post was really more about the problem than the solution. I have many strong women in my life and consider myself fortunate in that regard. A lot of people aren't as lucky and it's easy to become bigoted when that's being drilled into your head from childhood. And there's a lot of that around.

Jim Murray

6 years ago #2

#3
Michael O'Neil...Naa, you read it right, because I know you're a smart guy. I probably could have been more specific but my intention here was to showcase the articles I featured. I was just making a summary because it's good blogging etiquette. But it was all very editorial as opposed to factual.

Jim Murray

6 years ago #1

#1
Yeah...If I have a precise reference I don;'t have to get all that precise myself. All I'm trying to do is draw attention to the people who are actually trying to create change.

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