Graham🐝 Edwards

1 year ago · 2 min. reading time · ~100 ·

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If you want to go far...

If you want to go far...

Before I take you on a metaphorical journey, I wanted to mention two very important truisms that I was reminded of recently.

Truism #1“Shit happens.”

Truism #2“If you want to go fast, go alone; if you want to go far, go together.”


A gravel bike race is interesting endeavour — before you start the race everything is made available to send you on your way and when you finish, you are offered everything to celebrate your accomplishment. Between start and finish though, you are expected to be self-sufficient — there are no course marshals, no water stations and no one looking out for you if there’s any trouble. The 65 km race I signed up for was increased to 71 kms on the day of the race, and a decision to turn left instead of right added another 10 kms to that. As I pointed out, shit happens.

I was about halfway through the race when I came alongside three other riders at a stop sign — I quickly joined in as we looked for a green arrow that was a common marker along the route; there was nothing to indicate if we should turn right or turn left. After consulting our phones, various copies of maps and written instructions, four strangers agreed that turning left was the way to go. The next five kilometres of road was a challenging uphill ride and at the crest of a hill one of us stopped. As we caught up, it was suggested we’d turned the wrong way, and grudgingly, we all agreed. We had to turn back.

It was at that moment we:

added 10 kms to the ride.

added at least 40 minutes to our race time because of extra riding, discussions and decision making.

became a small team with the simple goal of finding our way and finishing the race.

For reasons conscious or unconscious, we all realized that there was a better chance of finishing the race if we stuck together — there were more green arrows “missing” but as a group we found our way; we encouraged each other when the trail became extra challenging; there was alway someone who saw the green arrow when others didn’t, and we would take turns with the pace to ensure we all finished. We even tried to help other riders on the way.

After being on the road for approximately 5 hours, 30 minutes and 29 seconds, we all crossed the finish line and thanked each other as we made our way to meet others. I will never know what would have happened if I had been on my own, but what I do know with complete certainty, when Asha, Devon, James and I made that left, I knew I would finish (and I remember saying to myself, “I’m going on an adventure.”)

As I crossed the finish line, I was out of water and food, on the verge of dehydration, cramping in both legs — and for my efforts came in 152nd**.

Definitely doing it again next year.


** Of the 200 riders that started, only 158 crossed the finish line.



Paul Walters

1 year ago #7


Greg Rolfe

1 year ago #6

Excellent aditude!

Fay Vietmeier

1 year ago #5

Graham🐝 Edwards

1 year ago #4

Graham🐝 Edwards

1 year ago #3

Fay Vietmeier

1 year ago #2

💜 @Graham🐝 Edwards 

Thanks for sharing 💜

“I'm going on an adventure”

That makes me smile 😇

I just returned from Mackinac Island in Michigan. The friend who invited me (because her son is working on a construction project there .. conveyed: it's not vacation it's an adventure" - similarly miles were added .. though for very different reasons.

Great application here to both our “adventure's” 

Truism #2“If you want to go fast, go alone; if you want to go far, go together.”


Jerry Fletcher

1 year ago #1

Graham, I envy you. Not being able to ride a bicycle that far but rather doing it for fun! Having come through 4 months of complications after a “standard knee replacement surgery” I'm just beginning to be able to walk with a cane due to weakness from medical complications not connected to the surgery. The knee is fine but all the medical complications  have been frustrating to say the least. Enjoy life!  And so it goes.

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