Jim Murray

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My friend, and former client, photographer Michael Kohn, who is a very bright guy, posted an interesting quote from Malcolm Gladwell in which he was referencing Facebook creator Mark Zuckerberg.

“Connection is the goal. The quality of that connection, the quality of the information that passes through it, the quality of the relationship that connection permits—none of this is important. That a lot of social networking software explicitly encourages people to make weak, superficial connections with each other and that this might not be an entirely positive thing, seem to never have occurred to him.”

A lot of people should see this as a call to action to up their game on social media. And the sooner the better.

The digital marketing universe, represented by the big sites like Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest, LinkedIn etc., are like whales swimming around with their mouths open sucking up anything that vaguely looks like food, referred to generally as plankton.

This plankton is the content that people like you and I are happy to provide. But more than that, it is also us as people.

These whales have conditioned us to look at this process of being food for them as something that will benefit us over time. They never actually say how long that is. But most of us believe them, and why not? We have no frame of reference for any of this because it is fairly new in our experience.

The leaders of these digital entities become gurus because they control their own media flow, reach, direction, intensity and message. I call it the big con. And we’re all marks in it. A lot of people don’t take it seriously, but they really do have us all completely profiled and are constantly selling our information to people who, in turn, want to sell us stuff.

This only works as long as we’re here providing food. It’s a symbiotic relationship between us (the plankton) and the whales of social media. We need them for amusement and the promise of connection to other plankton.  They need us for content and profile data which is what they’re really about.

At the end of the day, however, it’s a hell of a lot more profitable for the whales than any of us.

The way you break the pattern, of course, is by leaving. But the whales have a secret weapon. Our addiction to and our need for interaction with each other, even if it is just the tiny screams of plankton echoing in the blue ocean of bubbly goo.

So the real question then becomes, how do you make the game work for you?

I have written a number of pieces on the subject of ROI on social media. Here’s one of them:

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/10-ways-ensure-your-communications-materials-giving-good-jim-murray/

But the Golden Rule, no matter what you do, is always:

Be yourself. Reveal yourself. Offer wisdom. Solicit information and insight from others. Participate through commentary. Deepen your relationships to the point where they become beneficial to you.

We are, for the most part, only using about 20% of our capability here. Up the percentage and see if you can’t put your participation here to better use for you and the people you connect with.

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Comments

Thank you for sharing this insightful piece. It's true that social media platforms have conditioned us to make weak and superficial connections, and that it's important to up our game and deepen our relationships if we want to make the most of these platforms. It's also important to remember that we are the content and that our information is being sold to advertisers. However, I think it's possible to make the game work for us by being authentic, offering value, and building meaningful connections. It's a matter of being intentional about how we use these platforms and what we hope to achieve through them. Thank you for the reminder to up our percentage and make the most of our capability on social media.

Greg Rolfe

11 months ago #2

Huh. Great thought, and in my opinion an accurate assessment. The application might be a little more difficult but worth applying the effort. Thanks.

Jerry Fletcher

1 year ago #1

Plankton? Never thought of it that way, Jim, but you are quite correct. And so it goes.

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