Graham🐝 Edwards

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Stories from around the fire...

Stories from around the fire...

There is something about an open fire that transcends the dancing flame and the inviting smell; it beckons the memories of countless fires through the ages where people huddled for warmth, safety, a sense of community, and with the invitation for stories to inform and entertain. 


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I was afforded an opportunity to spend a couple of weeks with my father a while back, and one night we found ourselves around such a fire.

I should mention that my father, at the fine age of 85, is still very active on the golf course, travels once or twice a year, keeps his grass perfectly groomed, and enjoys all the functionality that his Galaxy S III can offer. He is definitely a good natured cranky old man who keeps everyone on their toes. 

As we settled in around the fire, our conversations began. We started with the topics of the day and what we have planned in the future, but it was inevitably the stories of the past and our histories that transcended the flame. 


I then spent more time listening than talking. There was...

The story of  "Management by Objectives" and reconciling it with "Management by Results", as the business worked hard to optimize the organization and implement the latest in management and leadership thinking. 

The story of a young man in his early twenties, just out of the paratroopers and full of piss and vinegar, having that feeling of being invincible as he walked down the darker streets of Detroit.

The story of being part of a survey team in Northern Ontario back in the early 1950's; trailblazing and marking the way for future roads and other manifestations of civilization. Isolated for weeks at a time, with supplies flown in every two or three weeks, they managed through the terrain, black flies, and the odd wolf pack as they made their way.

The story of a team member being struck with appendicitis in the "middle of the bush" with no radio, and having to get innovative with a fire and smoke signals to attract people from across the bay. They came as quickly as they could - That's what people do!

As the fire and conversation faded, it was not hard to imagine a similar fire a thousand years ago. Conversations and stories all in the same vein; "How to operate the farm more efficiently?" "Will the brashness of the village youth take them to war?", or "What will be done to get through the coming winter?" All starting with the topics of the day and then transcending with the stories of the past. Forever connecting us... forever reminding us that we are not alone.

Our life is our story.  Make it the best one you can and share it over an open fire*.

People are waiting to listen.

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* It goes without saying that safety should come first, so make sure your open fire is controlled and can easily be extinguished. And for those of you who don't have the space to build a fire, I have seen a bunch of lit candles also work well. 


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Graham🐝 Edwards

7 years ago #5

#3
Thanks for the comment \ud83d\udc1d Fatima Williams. We would have mixed you a fine martini. I will say "hi" for you.

Graham🐝 Edwards

7 years ago #4

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Thanks for your kind words Sara Jacobovici! Don't forget the open flame... it is mesmerizing.

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

7 years ago #3

"Our life is our story. Make it the best one you can and share it over an open fire ! " This story you share with your dad. I just pictured myself sitting there with you guys and listening to all the knowledge being passed down generations after generations. Such a warm buzz Thank you Graham\ud83d\udc1d Edwards Say hi to your dad 🤗

Sara Jacobovici

7 years ago #2

Graham\ud83d\udc1d Edwards writes about "the stories of the past and our histories that transcended the flame."

Sara Jacobovici

7 years ago #1

Beautifully written, beautifully told Graham\ud83d\udc1d Edwards. They do say that the sense of smell and memories are strongly connected. Thanks for sharing both!

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