Jim Murray

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Try As I Might The Christmas Spirit Eludes Me This Year

Try As I Might The Christmas Spirit Eludes Me This Year

Jim Murray, Strategist, Writer
& beBee Brand Ambassador

| am a communications professional, primarily
a strategist & writer. | work with small to mid sized

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fo create results driven, strategically focused
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1 am olso a communications mentor, lyricist

& prolific op/ed blogger Your Story Well ToldBesides the kitchen and bedroom, there are only two places in this house where I can sit comfortably.
One is right here in a space I have carved out on the dining room table, which is otherwise filled with all the odd shaped bits and pieces of flotsam and jetsam of our life and delicate miniatures which I am terrified to try and pack.
Right now due to the weird foibles of the real estate business I now, or should I say, my friendly neighbourhood Royal Bank, owns  two houses.
I live in this one and pack and work and watch football at night, cause I'm too whipped to do anything else
My wife lives in the house in St Catharines and unpacks the loads we have transported and takes care of all the business bullshit you have to go through when you change residences.

Christmas Is The Casualty This Year

If you could see the house we bought you would understand why we had to close on it in early December. So then we were at the mercy of the buyer for our house. He offered us an amazing amount, which we weren’t about to turn down for expediency’s sake.
So here we are feeling like well to do people in an amicable divorce.
Our skinny little Christmas tree was packed into the car last weekend with all the plants. But I packed the wrong lights. So there it sits in the window of our new family room, waiting to light up the lives of passers by, (of which there are few), pretty much defining our Christmas so far.
We knew we were writing off this Christmas or a good deal of it . But that doesn’t make it any less sad. My life is consumed with mundane things that tire me out and writing work that needs to be done before Christmas so other people can enjoy theirs.

My Big Attempt at Kickstarting My Christmas Spirit

Last week when we were both here, (where the Fibe TV is), we watched the wonderful Johnny Reid Special, “A Christmas Gift To You.”
Johnny is a transplanted Scotsman with a unique voice and is one of the best songwriters I have encountered in a while.
But he is also a Catholic and the songs he picked to sing, with the exception of a couple of his own, were the Christmas carols that a lot of us grew up with.
These songs, many of which celebrate the birth of Christ and the beginning of Christianity as we know it, are so ingrained in my psyche from hearing them every year sung by Kate Smith, Bing Crosby, Perry Como, Andy Williams, The Three Tenors, Barbra Streisand and many others, that they always trigger a wave of teary eyed nostalgia from my earliest days here on planet earth.
Usually this is enough Christmas spirit juice to get me through the entire season. But this year it was just a temporary respite.

It Will Happen Soon

This is also the first year in my married life that I can recall our house not being the family gathering place for Christmas.
We will be moved in on the 19th, but the chaos will probably continue unabated for a while. Fortunately we have a lot more space in this house and can keep the entire first floor where we will be doing most of our living, relatively chaos free.
Maybe once that is all in place, the old Christmas flame will ignite in my brain and we can salvage at least a semblance of our usual Christmas deal.
I also find that writing posts about Christmas, which this is, in a left handed sort of way, also helps.
Christmas is my favourite time of year. It was a time of great joy when our kids were little shrimps and it is that again with two new little grandshrimps.
We will have a good time. My wife will make sure of that and, as usual, I will tag along for the ride.

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Comments

Sara Jacobovici

7 years ago #20

I'm glad you decided to write Jim Murray, for whatever reason you had, becuase I love reading your stories and the comments that are attached. I celebrate Chanukkah but I went to a school in Montreal that was part of the Protestant School Board. I grew up loving and singing all those Christmas songs and carols. Over the years I have grown my songs and movie rituals and cry in the same places you probably do. I watch Heidi (the original black and white version) with Shirley Temple, Miracle on 34th Street with Natalie Wood, A Christmas Carol with Alistair Sim, White Christmas with Bing Crosby, and finally, It's a Wonderful Life with James Stewart. When you get to watch White Christmas in your new house, the song Counting Blessings may take on a slightly new meaning this year. Wishing you and your family a very happy Christmas!!

Wayne Yoshida

7 years ago #19

#25
Holiday Inn - yes, that's it. A holiday inn. But what an inn . . .

Lisa Gallagher

7 years ago #18

#23
Wayne, I've never seen Holiday Inn before. I googled the movie and it has Bing Crosby & Fred Astair in it? Looks like a classic. Love The Grinch too. I bet it does take some time for the Holidays to feel the same. Maybe they will never feel the same again but a 'different' type of good?! We are already focusing on building new traditions with my daughter and her family, I think it helps to know even when things change, we can make new memories together. Wishing you a peaceful Holiday season!

Wayne Yoshida

7 years ago #17

#14
Lisa - Yes! It's a Wonderful Life is a tradition over here. And "Holiday Inn." And the Dr. Seuss "Grinch Christmas" thing. Changing traditions happens. When my mother passed away a few years ago, we had to find another "hub" for family gatherings. Our eldest sister took over the tradition, but it will take some time to make it feel the same.

Lisa Gallagher

7 years ago #16

#17
I keep struggling with the tree idea Franci\ud83d\udc1dEugenia Hoffman. I need my husband to put it up. It's a 6 ft tall pre-lit tree. He's been saying, we don't need decorations this year and I haven't argued. But today, I had a spark of light hit me and I think I do want to decorate. It does something for the spirit. Good for you, and your right, there is something magical about the lights. Thanks for the reminder!

don kerr

7 years ago #15

Relax, put your hooves up and enjoy a big swig of egg nog laced with a healthy dose of the dark 'n dirty Jim Murray You're a good man Charlie Brown!

Phil Friedman

7 years ago #14

Jim, when you get really down about not having the Christmas spirit burn brightly in your psyche, head out to a Walmart or Target parking lot on a busy Christmas shopping day... and watch people fight over parking spaces, even at times coming to blows. Oh wait, I forgot you're in Canada and probably don't see much if any of that. Well, too bad for you. Let me see if I can send you some fresh videos from down here. Cheers!

Jim Murray

7 years ago #13

#15
Thanks Javier \ud83d\udc1d beBee. By next Tuesday things shoul;d be getting back to normal. We decided to not rush into getting all the boxes emptied and shelves put up. But to spend as much time as we can with out family and friends. We have all winter to get organized. Merry Christmas, my friend.
Merry Christmas Jim Murray have. Find the time to step back and look around at the love and joy you have grown with your family and friends !!! For me, Christmas is basically that.

Lisa Gallagher

7 years ago #11

I bet in part it's the move (burned out) but also you mentioned no family get together's at your home this year Jim Murray, that may be adding to how you feel. The last 3 years we haven't had my kids here and I quit putting up our large tree and only put out a few items. This year, nada. There is something to be said about traditions and family memories, when they are disrupted for various reasons it can make people lose their spirit. I'm going to watch "It's a Wonderful Life," and maybe that will help! Wishing you and your family a smooth transition, it wont be too much longer hopefully, and you'll be settled in! Wishing you a Happy Holiday Season aside from what you're feeling now!

Jim Murray

7 years ago #10

#7
Thanks Randy Keho. Yeah, everythings just about packed. Now I want to see the movers get it all into a 26 foot Truck

Jim Murray

7 years ago #9

#9
Thanks Franci\ud83d\udc1dEugenia Hoffman

Jim Murray

7 years ago #8

#10
Thanks Wayne. Actually, I'm trying to take it as easy as I can Wayne Yoshida. Because the new year looks like it's going to be very busy indeed. I didn't lose a single client by leaving town, even picked up a couple new ones. Nobody cares where you are anymore.

Wayne Yoshida

7 years ago #7

MerryChristmas Jim. Thanks for your thoughtful posts -- including this one. The move will soon be over, and you will get back into the swing of things. Look at it this way - you will have a great start for the New Year!

Randy Keho

7 years ago #6

Just gaze into the excited eyes of those grandshrimps of yours, Jim, and I guarantee the spirit will return. Enjoy the season.

Jim Murray

7 years ago #5

#5
Graham\ud83d\udc1d Edwards...Thanks. I watched it in November. I'm looking forward to watching White Christmas and Holiday Inn in my new house next week.

Graham🐝 Edwards

7 years ago #4

First of all Jim Murray I have to say that is a kick ass pair of antlers, which unto themselves are very "Christmassy". May I suggest to watch "It's a wonderful life" (which I'm pretty sure you have)... I think it's a heartfelt reminder of all things wonderful! Merry Christmas.

Jim Murray

7 years ago #3

#2
Thanks for the kind words, Paul Frank Gilbert Just a little anxiety and impatience. I guess. Cabin fever in an underfurshinged house.

Jim Murray

7 years ago #2

#1
That's the hope Kevin Pashuk. I'm just at the point where I want this crap to be over and have all my stuff in one place. It's coming. Thx, my friend.

Kevin Pashuk

7 years ago #1

What! No Céline Dion? or Bieber? No wait, that would really drive away the Christmas spirit... I can identify with your feelings Jim, we moved last year at this time. While we were in the old house on Christmas, practically everything not connected to turkey was packed. It really wasn't the same. Keep musing... perhaps you will find the Christmas spirit in a new way... with the ability to start some new traditions in the new Saint Catharines house.

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