Renée 🐝 Cormier

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Try Asking Some Different Questions


Try Asking Some Different QuestionsNot getting the results you want? We all get stuck from time to time as we struggle to achieve our desired goals. This happens to all of us and there are many sources for this problem that need to be analyzed if we are going to come up with an effective solution. Sometimes we stagnate because we are more focused on the problem than the solution. Sometimes we are too close to the problem to really see the whole picture, and sometimes we are simply distracted by things that invade our mental space and occupy our time. I like to call those misaligned priorities because they seem to demand our attention but do not actually move us toward our goals.

Getting to where you want to be means remaining committed to your goals. I am a very goal driven person, and I get extremely frustrated when things don’t happen for me. Sometimes my tenacity bugs people, because I am like a dog with a bone. I absolutely cannot let go. When the voices around me tell me to let the goal go, I will still push myself to get there. I remember reading in Napoleon Hill’s Think and Grow Rich that one of the common traits of successful people is the willingness to do whatever it takes to achieve their goals. Whenever I think of that, I strengthen my resolve to keep going and try to find better ways to get there.

Doing whatever it takes means you need to ask yourself some different questions in order to find better solutions. One question I like to ask myself is, “What am I going to do today to bring me closer to my goal?” This question forces focused action, and since nothing happens without action, it must drive you closer to achieving your goal. After that question, you have to ask yourself what your intended outcome is and examine whether or not the action will indeed bring you closer to your goal.

Another question I like to ask is, “Who can help me?” No one can be successful alone. Everyone who has ever achieved anything worthwhile had someone in their corner. Figure out which relationships you can leverage to get the kind of assistance you need. Before you do this, though, take the time to think of as many things as possible that will help you. For example, you may think all you need is a good business referral, but there may be some other things that could be even more valuable to you. Take the time to reflect on what these could be, then go out and find someone to help you.

Flexibility is really important if you want to achieve a particular goal. A goal may remain unchanged or may need to be modified slightly. Be prepared to modify both your goals and the way you think about your business or career. Ask yourself if there is something more or different that you could be doing. Does your market need to change? Does your product or service need to change? Is your approach inefficient? What do you need to do differently?

In developing questions to ask yourself, put a little pressure on yourself to come up with different questions and solutions each time. By doing the same thing day after day you will not create better results, so insist on changing it up. Only perform actions that produce something.

If you can’t cultivate the results you want by repeatedly performing the same action, you must be prepared to do something else.
For example, writing a blog requires you to perform the same action repeatedly and doesn’t necessarily produce immediate business results. What it does do, is cultivate opportunities. If no one is reading it, however, it is a waste of time. Upon reflection, you may discover that you need to do something completely different or perhaps just extend your effort to maximize your opportunity. To continue with the blog, example, writing a blog is only a small piece of the marketing effort. You must circulate it in places where it will gain maximum exposure (like beBee) and engage with people to develop opportunities. That would be part of extending your effort.


Are your wheels spinning or turning? Are you stuck in a rut or are you driving on the road ahead? Try asking some different questions and if you need help, find a friend, a mentor or a coach who can push you to ask the right questions and develop great solutions.

Check out my beBee post: The Art of Seeing Things Differently and The Power of Vujà dé


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Renée 🐝 Cormier

Renée 🐝 Cormier

4 years ago #6

#7
Yes. Maintaining an attitude of service adds value to many aspects of life.

Graham🐝 Edwards

Graham🐝 Edwards

4 years ago #5

Nice article Ren\u00e9e Cormier... another question I like to ask is, "How can I help today?"

Renée 🐝 Cormier

Renée 🐝 Cormier

4 years ago #4

#5
Thanks, Jared Wiese. I recycled this post from a blog I wrote several years ago. I remember your post about the questions. It was very good. I like the concept of asking empowering questions versus dis-empowering questions. When your head is in a funk, you will tend to ask yourself dis-empowering questions. Re-framing the way to ask questions will help you change your thinking about a lot of things. I appreciate your sharing and commenting. Thanks again.

Renée 🐝 Cormier

Renée 🐝 Cormier

4 years ago #3

#3
Yes. Ultimately, we are responsible for the degree of productivity in our lives. People are generally more happy to help those who have already started to help themselves. Thanks for the comment.

Renée 🐝 Cormier

Renée 🐝 Cormier

4 years ago #2

Thank you, John Prpich. Welcome to beBee! It's nice to see you here.

John Prpich

John Prpich

4 years ago #1

A thought provoking article Renée, it requires a lot of commitment and constant evaluation and measurement when setting goals, very much like personal reflection, we're really not good at it. I'll be interested in reading your other article

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