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Can books change the direction of your life?

Can books change the direction of your life?

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Gonna answer that question in the header right now - my answer is maybe, maybe not but they sure as hell can influence your thinking, enhance your experience of living, and take you places you'd never otherwise get to.

It's been joyful to see recent activity on beBee with Bees sharing what they're reading now or offering commentary on books which have been significant in their life. My love of reading started before I really remember being able to read. I loved their heft. The smell of an old book fuelled with thoughts of those who had read it long before me. The waft of newness that emerges from a newly cracked spine. The magic trails one can follow. 

I don't remember the first book I read but it was in the warm confines of the home pictured above.

The first books I remember fondling though were contained in a leather-bound edition of the 1911 Encyclopaedia Britannica. The pages were wafer thin and fragile while being heavy with all of the knowledge man had collected up to that point. I continued to use these tomes until just a few years ago. Granted they didn't help with research into the history of computing but they were brilliant pictures of those who had learned so much.

If I were to attempt to compile a list of books that influenced the direction of my life this post would become a book in itself so I've selected a few that came right of the top of my head.

An admission - I'm not much for non-fiction and biography generally leaves me cold. However, let me dive into the vast array of topics and themes on the fiction front and I will swim for miles.

Here we go in no particular order of magnitude of change, just as they came into my thoughts:

#1. The Fires of Spring by James Michener - This book resonated powerfully for me in my early teens. I was an adoptee who's adoptive mother died when I was 14 years old. David Harper, the story's hero - if he can be called such - somehow gave me hope. 

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David Harper was an orphan, lonely and impoverished. But his longing to embrace the world that abandoned him was stronger than the harsh realities. And even though he's a con man and petty thief at a carnival, he still dreams. For it was there that David learned about love and about women--all of whom taught him the riches of himself.
Here is a rich segment of American life--a magic blend of longing and wisdom, saltiness, simplicity, and compassion. The Atlantic

#2. John Irving (almost a Canadian by marital status and a long-time resident of Toronto) is one of the few authors who have influenced me to read every piece of fiction they've written. My first introduction to him was Setting Free the Bears and it remains a favourite. If for no other reason than the chapter about the protagonist's first experience of snow skis you should read this book. 

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To each other, we were as normal and nice as the smell of bread. We were just a family. In a family even exaggerations make perfect sense. 
John Irving
#3. The Honey Badger by Robert Ruark is a raw and brutal book. Along with his novels Uhuru, Something of Value, and The Old Man and The Boy his writing is visceral. If you need to know anything about how Ruark writes and what he conveys in this book which will take you from London, to New York to a teeming, seething Africa in the company of Alex Barr (thought to be a highly autobiographical character based on the author) then you need to know a little about this seldom seen critter - the honey badger. Suffice to say, it is not a creature with which you want to tangle. It's a mean little animal that when cornered launches an attack targeting only one male region - the testicles. And, once he's got a grip he will not let go. Is the story a little dated and hugely politically incorrect for today's tender society? Yes. Is it a compelling read - hell yes.

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Time just seems to fly away for a boy. That, I s’pose, is why one day you wake up suddenly and you ain’t a boy any longer.
Robert Ruark


#4. The Canterbury Tales blew my mind - so much so that Mediaeval studies became my major at Mount Allison University in Sackville, New Brunswick. Chaucer's brilliant stories of pilgrims on their way to Canterbury remain vibrant and relevant to this day. These 24 stories written in the 14th century provide, to my mind, pretty much everything you need to know about the character of man and even more about corporate culture as it exists to this day. If you've not dipped into this wonderful epistle since college days, do yourself a favour and have a little stroll down the trail. You will be enlightened, entertained, and educated. The Miller's Tale alone should have you howling with laughter. Yup, tremendously NSFW and improper for today's polite society but screamingly funny. 

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#5. All the Light we Cannot See, by Anthony Doerr advances our library by about 600 years given that it was published in 2014. It beautifully tells the story of a blind French girl and a German boy whose paths collide in occupied France as both try to survive the devastation of World War II. Quite simply this book is BRILLIANT! The separate but entwined stories of Marie-Laure and Werner will captivate and move you. Be prepared for a long session as you won't want to put this one down.

I've pushed it several times before and it is always on my list of first-to-read recommendations.


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Ten years in the writing, a National Book Award finalist, All the Light We Cannot See is a magnificent, deeply moving novel from a writer “whose sentences never fail to thrill”.
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#6. A Confederacy of Dunces by John Kennedy Toole leaves me speechless in its brilliance so I shall remain speechless only to say - READ THIS BOOK!

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"I mingle with my peers or no one, and since I have no peers, I mingle with no one."
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#7. Like John Irving although in a completely different genre, I have read every one of James Lee Burke's novels. It's hard to pick a favourite but again it was an early one (published 1993) which really grabbed me and just would not let me go. In the Electric Mist with the Confederate Dead we continue to travel the sweaty, stinking bayous and swamps of New Iberia, Lousiana (hope that doesn't offend you Gerald Hecht). The protagonist, Dave Robicheaux is a no-nonsense former law man who just can't escape his past. Well beyond the well crafted stories, Burke creates a sense of place that will have beads of perspiration popping up on your upper lip and set you to craving for beignets at Café du Monde.

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The story of Ulysses and Agamemnon and Menelaus, of Jesus, of the Good Knight of Chaucer, lives in every one of us.
James Lee Burke

#8. In my book I included a quote from Albert Camus' L'étranger. Camus is not noted for his uplifting commentary on life. In fact his writing can be pretty grim - rather like a foggy February day when the damp seeps into every nook and cranny. The quote?

In the depth of winter I finally learned that there was in me an invincible summer.
Albert Camus

This book was part of the curriculum back when I attended high school. I don't know if it still is and it would surprise me if it is given that it offers a no-holds-barred perspective on what it means to be unconventional. The title character, Meursault, falls well outside the bounds of what was deemed normal in 1942 North Africa and probably would still be seen as an outlier in extremis today.

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'In our society any man who does not weep at his mother's funeral runs the risk of being sentenced to death.' I only meant that the hero of my book is condemned because he does not play the game.
Camus on Meursault

This book I have re-read more than any other in my collection. I've now gone digital with it simply because the old dog-eared, note littered copy has been placed in my safekeeping vault. Perhaps my boys will enjoy it in a few years. 

#9. Finally some Canadian content and I'm not doing so out of any sense of obligation. I've been know to enjoy a good 'duster' in my time and when Patrick deWitt published The Sisters Brothers in 2011 I snapped it up. 

907eed04.jpgIt tells the tale of Eli and Charlie Sisters and spins a narrative that is entertaining and quite simply fun - if you enjoy a good 'duster'. It's an award winner, it comes pretty close to reading like a film outline, and it is now in production for launch in 2018.  Will it change your life? Categorically no. Will it become a cornerstone of your library? Probably not. Is it in the same league as some of the others on my list? Nope. 

It is though, a damn fine read!

#10. As Wakonda is my witness, I did not intend for this to be a top 10 list. That's just the way it turned out and I'm probably concluding the list with what should be #1 - if I was doing this in any sort of hierarchical order of significance. You Can't Go Home Again by Thomas Wolfe does, in fact, form the keystone of my library. I am in the midst of re-reading it again at this moment. There's a complete separate post calling out to me for this book.

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This is man: a writer of books, a putter-down of words, a painter of pictures, a maker of ten thousand philosophies. He grows passionate over ideas, he hurls scorn and mockery at another's work, he finds the one way, the true way, for himself, and calls all others false--yet in the billion books upon the shelves there is not one that can tell him how to draw a single fleeting breath in peace and comfort. He makes histories of the universe, he directs the destiny of the nations, but he does not know his own history, and he cannot direct his own destiny with dignity or wisdom for ten consecutive minutes.
Thomas Wolfe, You Can't Go Home Again

Books help us learn and perhaps create our own histories. So will they change one's life?

You tell me.

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Comments

don kerr

6 years ago #24

Hector Fong Por lo tanto, muchísimas gracias. Gracias por dedicar tu tiempo a comentar.

don kerr

6 years ago #23

#26
Phil Friedman So glad to find another Robicheaux fan. Think there's a new one about to launch! Happy New Year buddy.

don kerr

6 years ago #22

#28
Ian Weinberg Interesting. I recall reading the book on Freud just after reading Stone's Lust for Life. Nice point-counterpoint given the nature of Van Gogh's troubled life and Freud's pioneering work.

don kerr

6 years ago #21

#25
Harley King Goodreads fell to the wayside as I spent more time working and writing and reading. Perhaps it is time to revisit. Thanks for the prompt.

Ian Weinberg

6 years ago #20

Indeed a book can greatly influence thoughts and directions along the life path. For me the pivotal text that nudged me in a definitive direction was 'Passions of the mind' by Irving Stone - Forever the initiator of my career path.

Phil Friedman

6 years ago #19

I guess I missed this first time around. Pleased I saw it this time, thanks to Harley King. It is good to find another fan of James Lee Burke and the Dave Robicheaux series. Gritty ex-cop stuff mixed with genuine literary quality... what could be better? I'll tell you. The unabridged audiobook versions -- especially those narrated by voice artist Will Patton. Truly magnificent. If you haven't already, you should try them. https://youtu.be/nmxcBCUWXmY Cheers!

don kerr

6 years ago #18

#22
Ren\u00e9e \ud83d\udc1d Cormier Always interested in your stories my friend.

don kerr

6 years ago #17

#20
Thank you sire!

Kevin Pashuk

6 years ago #16

Missed this last time Don... Glad I caught it now. Sharing.

don kerr

7 years ago #15

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Excellent choice Princess Donna-Luisa Eversley It is stupendous. #15 You won't go wrong with that choice Gert Scholtz Always so pleased to hear from you sir.

Gert Scholtz

7 years ago #14

Don \ud83d\udc1d Kerr Enjoyed your post Don! It made me realize that leaning more to non-fiction, I am missing out on some excellent fiction works. So as not to continue as a fiction dunce, I will begin with Confederacy of Dunces.

Sara Jacobovici

7 years ago #13

Thanks for tagging me Don \ud83d\udc1d Kerr. Your post gives me great pleasure.

CityVP Manjit

7 years ago #12

#6
Jeez, I am getting lazy a.k.a. "thanks Don" Dipwad is fine with me, I was born in England where self-deprecation was a neighbourhood trait but I won't add to that list of phrases we used back then; because that will only belabor a point when it is a descriptor of flow. Not insipid, just vanilla laced dipwad with a little brown sauce. As for veracity, that is ironical - after all the new shizen sandwich of 2017 is processed meat stuck between alternative facts and fake news. Welcome to the new emerging reality of Personal Trump Branding. Now that we know that Don can become President - time move over Mr. Trudeau. Now I can say "thanks Don" :-)

CityVP Manjit

7 years ago #11

#6
Jeez, I am getting lazy a.k.a. "thanks Don" Dipwad is fine with me, I was born in England where self-deprecation was a neighbourhood trait but I won't add to that list of phrases we used back then; because that will only to belabor a point when it is a descriptor of flow. Not insipid, just vanilla laced dipwad with a little brown sauce. As for veracity, that is ironical - after all the new shizen sandwich of 2017 is processed meat stuck between alternative facts and fake news. Welcome to the new emerging reality of Personal Trump Branding. Now we know that Don can become President - move over Mr. Trudeau. Now I can say "thanks Don" :-)

CityVP Manjit

7 years ago #10

#6
Jeez, I am getting lazy a.k.a. "thanks Don" Dipwad is fine with me, I was born in England where self-deprecation was neighbourhood trait but I won't add to that list of phrases we used back then because that will only to belabor a point when it is a descriptor of flow. Not insipid just vanilla laced dipwad with a little brown sauce. As for veracity, that is ironical - after all the new shizen sandwich of 2017 is processed meat stuck between alternative facts and fake news. Welcome to the new emerging reality of Personal Trump Branding. Now you know that Don can become President - so move over Trudeau. Now I can say "thanks Don" :-)

CityVP Manjit

7 years ago #9

#6
Thanks Don

don kerr

7 years ago #8

#7
Thanks for the recommendation Paul Walters I shall look for it right now. And, you're on my list Paul!

Paul Walters

7 years ago #7

Great list Don \ud83d\udc1d Kerr As you would well know to be a writer you firstly have to be a reader! And read I do as at this juncture in my life I have that great luxury called TIME ! If I could be so bold as to recommend A Little Life by Hanya Yanagihara which I read last year. Seldom has a novel affected me as much as this one does. In the interim I shall try to keep improving and , who knows? One day I might, just might make that Don Kerr list !!!!

don kerr

7 years ago #6

CityVP \ud83d\udc1d Manjit I don't know about the 'dipwad' comment but I do know that flow is a brilliant approach to the experience of life. I also don't know why anyone would challenge the veracity of this story. Clearly you found a life-changing experience and that's all that matters. thanks for sharing.

CityVP Manjit

7 years ago #5

I am not here thinking this, doing this if I had not read Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi. Not that he does not know about it because a conference delegate told my story to him at a Boston conference many years ago. What I do know is that Mihaly heard this story after he got up and stepped outside the conference due to his anger at a point made my a speaker on the stage, He was at that time already not happy hearing something from a speaker because it jived against his personal experiences out of the Hungarian revolution. It is here where this delegate went out to see what had upset Mihaly. That is where he heard my story and all I know is that it moved him and he was on all accounts surprised to hear this account, that admist the anger at the thing that a speaker called Francis Fukuyama said, his eyes watered that his book could fundamentally transform one individuals life. This is the strange circle of life - a single book that prevented me from disappearing into emptiness and meaningless - and the energy I apply today as I reflect on the question here. If anyone has any doubts about the veracity of this story, please feel free to speak to Mihaly himself - he will confirm the Boston conference account, just as I will confirm that stumbling on his book changed my life. I am not still a great reader of books but my dear friend Don - I went from "I don't give a shit about life" person to this learning journey and I still have a few more years left despite the fact that by it's close it will span beyond two decades. What you see me engaging here is flow. Sometimes this flow leaves me looking like a bit of a dipwad, other times an enlightened thinker, but it is nothing but flow - without rhyme or reason - other than I woke up to life and I got this thing called FLOW.

CityVP Manjit

7 years ago #4

Feb 13, 2017 12:21:59 AM I am not here thinking this, doing this if I had not read Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi. Not that he does not know about it because a conference delegate told my story to him at a Boston conference many years ago. What I do know is that when Mihaly heard this story after he got up and stepped outside the conference due to his anger at a point made my a speaker on the stage, He was at that time already not happy hearing something from a speaker because it jived against his personal experiences out of the Hungarian revolution. It is here where this delegate went out to see what had upset Mihaly. That is where he heard my story and all I know is that it moved him and he was on all accounts surprised to hear this account, that admist the anger at the thing that a speaker called Francis Fukuyama said, his eyes watered that his book could fundamentally transform one individuals life. This is the strange circle of life - a single book that prevented me from disappearing into emptiness and meaningless - and the energy I apply today as I reflect on the question here. If anyone has any doubts about the veracity of this story, please feel free to speak to Mihaly himself - he will confirm the Boston conference account, just as I will confirm that stumbling on his book changed my life. I am not still a great reader of books but my dear friend Don - I went from "I don't give a shit about life" person to this learning journey and I still have a few more years left despite the fact that by it's close it will span beyond two decades. What you see me engaging here is flow. Sometimes this flow leaves me looking like a bit of a dipwad, other times an enlightened thinker, but it is nothing but flow - without rhyme or reason - other than I woke up to life and I got this thing called FLOW.

CityVP Manjit

7 years ago #3

I am not here thinking this, doing this if I had not read Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi. Not that he does not know about it because a conference delegate told my story to him at a Boston conference many years ago. What I do know is that when Mihaly heard this story, he got up and stepped outside the conference. He was at that time already not happy hearing something from a speaker because it jived against his personal experiences out of the Hungarian revolution. It is here where this delegate went out to see what had upset Mihaly. That is where he heard my story and all I know is that it moved him and he was on all accounts surprised to hear this account, that admist the anger at the thing that a speaker called Francis Fukuyama said, his eyes watered that his book could fundamentally transform one individuals life. This is the strange circle of life - a single book that prevented me from disappearing into emptiness and meaningless - and the energy I apply today as I reflect on the question here. If anyone has any doubts about the veracity of this story, please feel free to speak to Mihaly himself - he will confirm the Boston conference account, just as I will confirm that stumbling on his book changed my life. I am not still a great reader of books but my dear friend Don - I went from "I don't give a shit about life" person to this learning journey and I still have a few more years left despite the fact that by it's close it will span beyond two decades.

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